
RADICAL REALITY
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RADICAL REALITY
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If you Minimize your NOW and take Radical Responsibility for What-Is As It Is, the world around you changes.
You become functional in entirely new ways.
How is it to interact and create in Radical Reality?
There is only one way to find out...
Entering Radical Reality
HOW TO DISCOVER RADICAL REALITY
Radical Reality is Reality as it is, without any Stories attached.
But Human Beings are Story Makers.
We do not relate to the world as it is.
We relate to the world through our Stories of the world.
Most of our Stories have come from other people, and therefore, from the past.
This means we can generally only duplicate what they have done and create what has already been created.
However, what has already been created places no limitations on what can Possibly be created.
This is the Doorway to the tools, thoughtmaps, and processes of Possibilty Management.
The more accurately your thoughtware approaches Reality, the more Agency you have to create real results in Reality.
Thoughtmaps are neither true nor false, neither right nor wrong, neither good nor bad. Instead, thoughtmaps are either accurate or inaccurate. The more accurate your thoughtmaps, the more you are in Radical Reality.
HOW TO STAY IN RADICAL REALITY
You are already in Radical Reality, but you tell yourself Stories to cover up that fact
This is the same as realizing that you are already naked, but you wear clothes to cover up that fact.
Disidentifying with your Stories one by one gives you greater access to Radical Reality.
Some people try to use drugs to Disidentify with their Stories. We do NOT recommend that.
Why not?
Two reasons:
1. Drugs are not specific. They can possibly Disidentify you from all your Stories all at once, all of a sudden. This can be shocking. Even if you can endure the shock, you cannot sustain the Storyless state because you do not have the Matrix to stabilize there. It leaves you only disoriented and disappointed, thinking that perhaps your next high will last longer... You know where that leads...
2. Because you will automatically disidentify from a Story in the moment you have built enough Matrix to relate to the world without the Story. This is the same as no longer believing in the Tooth Fairy, or Santa Claus, or the Easter Bunny. Can you remember when that happened? If it was natural (without your older brother abusing you...) then it happened easefully. You had no shock or recoil, because you already had built the Matrix needed to be in a world without the Tooth Fairy, Santa Claus, or the Easter Bunny.
This is why Possibility Management emphasizes the value of Practice, and the value of Study, and the value of Experimenting with Feedback and Coaching from your Team. Because these are the ways you Build the most stable and solid Matrix.
Exiting a Story field is also similar to growing bigger than a superstition.
Before you recognize a superstition as a superstition, you think it is the truth. You think the black cat matters, what you do with the salt matters, where you walk regarding a ladder matters, what number floor it is, or that breaking a mirror matters. But when you build enough Matrix, when your Compass of Reality is calibrated, the superstitions fall away powerless.
CALIBRATE YOUR COMPASS OF REALITY BY HEALING YOUR TECHNOPENURIAPHOBIA
Imagine not knowing that you can burn your computer with a candle.
Imagine not knowing how slow a car must be going before you can jump out of it and not get too badly hurt.
Imagine not knowing how to start a fire 5 different ways without matches or a lighter.
Imagine not knowing basic First Aid skills, how to deal with bleeding, no breathing, or poisoning, or how to deliver artificial resussitation.
Imagine not knowing how to fix a flat tire on your bicycle, or how to replace the brake pads or a brake cable.
You were born high up on the Ladder of Technology. When modern technology fails, most people freak out into nervous puddles of quivering helplessness. When the water stops running, the lights stop shining, the elevator stops between floors, what do you do?
How much food can you grow? Can you even grow sprouts?
Can you sew clothes by hand and machine? Weave cloth out of spun wool? Weave a basket out of yucca leaves? Weave a sunhat out of flax leaves? Braid rope? Make shoes out of used car tires? Work with leather? Make paper? Make soap? Milk a cow or goat? Make cheese, yogurt, butter?
Can you load and aim and shoot a gun? A bow and arrow? A David and Goliath sling? A blowgun? A boomerang? A bolo? Can you throw a knife so it sticks in? An axe? A spear? Can you sword fight?
Your Compass Of Reality includes your knowledge of the strength of materials, basic physics, thermodynamics, electricity, plumbing, and infrastructure systems. Can you weld with gas and arc? Can you use power hand tools?
There is much about the world to learn beyond First Position, both in theory and practice. None of it was taught in school. All of it is real. To enter Radical Reality, this knowledge is fundamental. And it is such a joy to learn together in a Possibility Team.
DROP YOUR BAGGAGE
Each of the facets of your Box have 'needs' that they want fulfilled in order to feel either 'safe' or 'comfortable'.
Here is the thing about 'safety' and 'security'. They are a Fantasy World. At any moment you could be killed by a meteorite, an erupting volcano, falling rocks from an earthquake, etc. As Helen Keller clearly explained, "Security does not exist in nature. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing."
Your Box trying to have its 'needs met' or 'to be comfortable' is merely your Survival Strategy in action. Your Box thinks that if it can survive, then you can survive. But past your 18th birthday, the opposite is true. If your Box survives, then you are in Prison. Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes are about you getting out of your 8 Prisons and into your Adulthood life on the evolutionary Path.
Each of those 'needs' seems to come from a different character, one of your Parts. You have many Parts to feel Identified with, because each feeling or 'need' from a Part seems real because you can feel it!
Once you Disidentify with your Parts, then one by one you can integrate the Parts back into a single 'I'. This could be the hidden map within the various legendary tales such as Highlander (not recommended viewing due to pointless brutality) that, "There can only be one."
This integration of Identities happens naturally and gradually over years of steady Matrix building. But it helps to understand what is going on, to detect when a new Part takes over your Identity, what its Purpose and telltale styles are. By studying your Parts through Self Observation, you feel less like you are going crazy when you unconsciously Shift Identity for Survival purposes, or when you gradually stop shifting Identity and wonder what is happening.
One of the ways to make it easier to drop an Identity is to clearly identify and feel the Baggage you are required to carry in order to keep that Identity around. We recommend doing ALL of the Experiments described on the Baggage website with your Possibility Team (AND REGISTERING YOUR MATRIX CODES AT login.startover.xyz)
By dropping your emotionally charged Baggage, you can more easily integrate your various Parts into a single Identity when it comes time to do so.
One way to efficiently drop Baggage is to Go Travel Now, becoming Nomadic for a while, doing Possibility Couchsurfing while you relocate you Point Of Origin into Radical Freedom. By traveling far beyond your birth culture, you see how much of your Baggage is extra weight and can more easily let it go.
You need Radical Freedom before Initiations and a Life of Practice make any sense at all...

Fantasy, Swamp & Reality
This thoughtmap comes from a recent New Zealand Possibility Lab, drawn by Anne-Chloé Destremau. It shows how Pressuring yourself to stay in a Fantasy World about what should be or could be, or beating yourself up because you Collapsed into your Swamp, are two sides of a back-and-forth ping-pong game that can entirely devour your life.
It all starts with believing the reality-denying statement: "Things should not be like this!"
This idea keeps you away from reality, away from having the power to create.
In your Fantasy World you think: "My life is already great! I will be on the cover of Vogue magazine! I am always okay. Everyone will love me. I will not fuck up. I am the savior. I will be remembered. I am important. I am amazing. I am beautiful. I will have the answers that everyone is looking for. I will do what I want!"
Then you Collapse and fall into your Swamp where you think, "Things are so shitty. I can't do it. I don't have enough. It has all been done before. I am a failure. Nobody loves me. I am pathetic. I am left behind in the dust. Everyone is ahead of me. Nothing works out like I think it will. I am hopeless."
All the while, Reality waits for you at the Bottom of your Underworld. In reality there are no Stories because none of the evidence for the Stories is true. The evidence is Bullshit. Bullshit falls away at the Bottom. Then there is nothing, or rather, Nothingness. Reality is what is, with no Stories attached. Stories exist in time, as memories from the past, or projections into the future. In reality, with a minimized NOW, there is no time. This is the Bottom, close to Reality.
Video about Fantasy, Reality, and Hitting Bottom
This is a video from Vera Luísa Franco about the Thoughtmap of Fantasy, Reality, and Hitting Bottom. Your Emotions are meant for healing things, and your Feelings are meant for Creating things. Most people use unconsciously use their Emotions and Feelings to ping-pong back and forth between Pressuring themselves to be in a Fantasy World, or Collapsing into the Swamp. Something completely different from this is Possible right now.
Radical Reality In Life
PRESSURING YOURSELF TO LIVE IN A FANTASY WORLD
To avoid feeling what you feel in reality you develop Survival Strategies.
One Strategy is to project a Fantasy World vision over Reality, effectively Declaring, "What is happening in Reality should not be happening", and instead, "My Fantasy is what should be happening".
You get your Fantasy from looking at advertisements, listening to old wives tales, watching movies, streaming songs over and over. You decide that you should be like someone else, that their life and circumstances should be your life and circumstances.
Fantasies are treacherous because in the Fantasy World you have everything the way your Box's Survival Strategy wants it. This can seem, at first, to be the 'safest' and most comfortable solution to life.
The problem is that it is a Fantasy World. It is not real.
To try to stay in the Fantasy World, you Pressure yourself to do or be or make or have things that are not real for you. They don't actually fit you. They try to twist your Being to fit into a strange shape that is not your Being's shape.
It is like in the story of Cinderella when the footman comes to check if the glass slipper fits any of the sisters. Cinderalla is already locked away in her attic room by her stepmother, Lady Tremaine. Her two large-bodied evil stepsisters, Anastasia and Drizella, are ready to chop their toes off to fit their feet into the slipper. This is what you are trying to do to yourself by trying to fit into your Fantasy World.
There is no match between you and your Fantasy desires. You try by being Adaptive, by using your Will to bend your own Will, by playing along, by acting as if the Fantasy world is real. But it is not real. It is a Fantasy World.
Pressuring yourself uses up all your resources. You push and push, try and try, force and force, until you must eventually Collapse.
And while you Collapse, you scrape your fingernails along the wall. You complain and blame, you scream and shout, but still you slide away, down and out of the Fantasy World, flipping unavoidably over to the Swamp.
COLLAPSING INTO YOUR SWAMP
The Voices are rampant and vicious in the Swamp. "I will never make it. I have failed. I don't fit in. No one loves me. No one is there to support me. I don't know how to do it. The others have betrayed me. They lied to me. They don't miss me. No one misses me. They don't even know I am gone."
Hearing such Voices reveals your 'X' on the map... you are in the Swamp.
You beat yourself up in the Swamp. You love beating yourself up. You tried to enter the Fantasy World even though you knew you could not conform to the Fantasy World's requirement. You tried anyway, in order to fall into the Swamp and beat yourself up.
You love beating yourself up.
You imagine that if you abuse yourself enough, intensly enough, or long enough in the Swamp, then you will have paid your penance and will be released from Hades and allowed to return to your Fantasy World.
Eventually your Collapse is severe enough that you can't even struggle anymore. You give up and rest.
And the rest gives you back some strength, enough strength to start thinking of the Fantay World again...
Maybe if you try harder... Maybe if you try smarter... Maybe if you are faster, or wear different clothes, or walk differently, or use a different hairstyle or eye makeup or skin cream...
And suddenly you find yourself back in the Fantasy World, Pressuring yourself again to try to match the image of who you think you should be. Pressure... Pressure... Pressure... until you Collapse again.
Pressure... Collapse... Pressure... Collapse... decades are ticking by. How much longer before you get a heart attack, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's, or autoimmune disease?
THE ENDLESS PING-PONG BACK-AND-FORTH LOOP
Look at your life. Is this Ping-Pong Fantasy / Collapse thing a pattern you recognize?
Pressuring yourself to live up to a Fantasy World, then unavoidably Collapsing exhausted into the Swamp, hating the world, hating yourself.
Back and forth, up and down, manic and depressive.
Your habits keep you in a never-ending repetition of Pressure and Collapse that no amount of rest or discipline can solve. Right? You go on vacation, then the first day back you strive for the Fantasy World again, Pressuring yourself to work even harder...
How long will you keep doing this? How long will you refuse What-Is? Trying to hit the nail where it is not? Trying to walk a trail on an inaccurate map? Believing the self-generated delusions? Trying to convince yourself that you like what is popular? Trying to be seen as what you are not?
Neither by Pressuring yourself or by Swamping yourself do you get to be yourself.
You may have no role models for a person being themelves. This is modern culture. You are supposed to be 'succesful', not be yourself.
If you are not yourself, how can anyone love you? If they love the image you pretend to be, what happens when they find out who you really are?
If you are not yourself, how can you know what you want?
If you do not know what you want, how can you create what you want?
If you create what your Fantasy World wants, how can you force yourself to like it? More Pressure?
The Ping-Pong between Pressuring yourelf to achieve the Fantasy World, and Collapsing from outrage and exhaustion into your Swamp, is an endless loop. There is no escaping the Ping-Pong by Pressuring yourself in some new way, or beating yourself up into further worthlessness.
So, then what?
HITTING BOTTOM AND ENTERING REALITY
At some point your physical, energetic, and emotional bodies, perhaps even your intellectual body - your mind, must give out. You break down due to having strung yourself out to nonfunctionality. Your bodies abandon your orders and revolt.
If this revolt happens unconsciously, it may produce psychosis or psychological breakdown. You may have an accident or a financial crisis, be divorced by your partner, or be attacked by some serious disease. This is 'The Hammer' when the Universe gets tired of you blocking your Being from evolving. This is when the Universe steps in and sabotages your Box's defense strategies.
The Hammer is the hard way to go, the long and painful path. There is an alternative.
The conscious way is to Hit Bottom.
Hitting Bottom is recognizing that both your Fantasy World and your Swamp are fictional, and stepping out of all of it. You go sideways in a nonlinear direction into new territory. The new space is unknown to you, does not accomodate your comforts or your habits, but there is a sense of freedom.
The performer Janis Joplin sang:
Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose.
When you no longer hold onto something artificial, the real can appear.
It may not be a pretty sight, but it is What Is.
Since there is no longer anything for a Story to grip onto, it is neither 'bad' nor 'good' that you have Hit Bottom.
It is the Bottom. That is all.
Both your 'Hero' version of Fantasy and your 'Swamp' version of Fantasy have lost their grip on your relationship with the world.
This may at first feel scary. The lack of reference points against which you can check yourself, to calculate if you are 'getting somewhere', to determine your 'position in the hierarchy', to measure your 'status' or 'degree of success'. There is nothing left like that. Only What-Is is left, with no Stories attached.
Hitting Bottom can seem like the 'worst thing' that could possibly happen to you.
But with the Pressure gone, the Swamp judgments gone, without constantly grading yourself, Hitting Bottom can also be the 'best thing' that could possible happen to you.
But 'the worst thing' and 'the best thing' are both stories. In fact, there are no Stories. Nothing is happening to you. You just are.
Why is 'Hitting Bottom' the same as 'entering Reality'?
Because, as Pema Chodron says, "The nature or Reality is groundlessness."
Your Stories and your Strategies for Surviving in them begin to fall away as effortlessly as dry skin falls off of a lizard's back. Then your new more sensitive skin is exposed and you sense that to which you were previously numb.
This is when you Notice that at the Bottom there are no Stories, but there are still Feelings and Emotions.
This is why it is important to have learned to Consciously Feel before you Hit Bottom. With improved Inner Navigating skills you can be at home in yourself even at the Bottom.
This is why it is important to have left behind Verbal Reality and inhabited Experiential Reality. You have more experiences than you have words. In Experiential Reality you use words only when needed, and then you use words to paint experience into someone else's body so they can experience what you are experiencing.
We think in pictures but we speak in words. This is why it helps to describe your pictures very slowly, carefully and generously. Stop any thoughts that doubt or legitimize your wants. Learn to let your heart speak. Your heart speaks very slowly and uses simple but profound words.
LEARNING TO CREATE
How do you create without Pressuring yourself into a survivalist Fantasy World?
Watch the Map of Creation video here: https://youtu.be/GLKlUmByPIE

3 Men Falling Into A Bottomless Pit
Reality without any Stories attached may at first feel scary. If you already know that Reality is groundless, then when the bottom drops out from under you, you can start to enjoy it. After all, Human Beings are designed to fly. Perhaps it is time for you to enter Flying School.
Radical Reality In Relating
Each of the following sections is a Doorway to entering Radical Reality... and staying there.
The things that keep you from Radical Relating are the same things that keep you from Radical Reality.
You will see below that there is a lot in the way.
You will also see that the way out is straightforward.
EVERYTHING THAT EVERYBODY SAYS IS BULLSHIT
Imagine that.
Everything everybody says is Bullshit.
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Yes. Everything.
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Turn your Bullshit Detector fully on, then you will see.
It is true that words are not true. They are sonic or written symbols, mere approximations. A word is a word, yes, but the word's meaning is maleable, situational, viewpoint dependent, as solid as mist.
(In fact, one of the meaning for the word 'mist' in German is 'bullshit'.)
Yes, words can be defined, but only by using other words. See the circular logic? It is fog defining fog.
But this is NOT the conundrum being indicated here.
The shocking realization is that most human beings have no idea what their Purpose actually is when they speak.
Most people think they say something or say it in a certain way to serve a Purpose which they think they are aware of, a true Purpose. But actually their speaking (or withholding thereof...) serves the Purpose of Survival. People generally do not say anything that might put their Survival at risk.
If a person is not being their Authentic Self, but instead is functioning in accordance with their unconscious Survival Strategy, then they cannot be held accountable for what they say. They are using a set of Beliefs and Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware (S.H.I.T.) which they are unaware of, and their speaking follows instructions from their Survival Strategy.
If you listen carefully, you can hear people Shift Identity and Purpose three or more times in one sentence, having no idea that what they say is so radically inconsistent.
But that does not mean YOU should not be aware of it, as a Human Being, as a Possibilitator.
If you personally test, and persistently Notice, and discover for yourself that what each person around you says - no matter who they are, even on the media, even on television news, even in a speech from the pope or the president... is Bullshit, then you discover a Gap of Space between you and their communication (one of the 9 Gaps...) in which you have freedom of movement.
In that Gap you can create whatever you want to create rather than for any reason at all needing or being required to respond directly to what the other person says.
That Gap may be the most precious thing in the Universe to a Possibilititator, because through that Gap you can forever gain access to Nonlinear Possibility.
YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT SOMEONE MEANS UNTIL THEY AGREE WITH YOU
Completing a communication can become an ecstatic form of intimacy.
Arranging for your own communications to land in a Space or to land in another person's Being depends on the Clarity of the forms of communication you can negotiate and deliver.
Most people do not know if what they say has been heard, so they do not experience their communication being completed.
This is because most people do not negotiate for the listener to repeat back to them what they heard so that the speaker can check if what was heard was what they intended to communicate.
Without negotiating completed communications, relationship has nearly no basis besides serving as a sandbox for unconscoius Gremlin feeding frenzies.
In order to check for successfully received communications, the listener has the power to generate a Completion Loop by repeating back to the speaker what they heard the speaker say.
If the speaker says something and the listener does not make a Completion Loop, anything could have been heard due to the listener's Box's filters, Beliefs, interpretations, Projections, Prejudices, Expectations, Conclusions, and Hidden Competing Commitments. It is an intant mess.
Hierarchical power structures use a 'command and control' form of communication, which means that you must listen to any communications from anyone higher up in the hierarchy under threat of marshall punishment. The hierarchy exists on the one catechism that you must follow your orders.
This 'top down' communication has pervaded most of modern culture, including to the family where, "Because I said so," and, "Because I am the parent," are sufficiently large threats to force obedience. In relationship this translates to, "Because I am the man," meaning, the patriarch.
Archiarchy avoids using hierarchical power structures, instead powering its organizations with Torus Meeting Technology.
In other words, people organize their Gameworlds - from Nanonations to Grownesses to Bridgehouses to partnerships - in circles, not in pyramids. This means 'command and control' communication does not work. Orders cannot be given. Instead, creative collaboration prevails. Valuable creation can originate from any individual, not only from those at the top of the hierarchy.
Communications cannot be counted upon to be understood until the Listener reflects back to the Speaker what they heard the Speaker say, and the Speaker involuntarily says, "Yes!".
You do not know what a Speaker means until you repeat back to them what you heard them say, and they agree with you.
The experience of completing communications when someone talks to you is delicious, just as powerful but in the opposite direction from the bitterness of miscommunications.
MOST OF WHAT PEOPLE DO IS ENACT THEIR SURVIVAL STRATEGY - INCLUDING YOU
Until a person has formally set foot on their Adulthood Initiatory Path, they live inside of their Survival Strategy Box and can at most take Adolescent Level Responsibility.
But how many people do you know who are on their Adulthood Initiatory Path. Certainly not the mayor of your village, not your landlord, or the people running the franchise convenience stores, shoe shops, and gas stations that have invaded your town.
This means it is up to you.
What is up to you?
Everything is up to you.
This is Radical Reality, not pretend reality. Not childhood 'feel good' bedtime stories.
Your Survival Strategy is the combination of every trick you have learned for how to not get killed by the others, how not to get bullied and outcast, how not to get left behind at the next gas station.
Mother Nature doesn't really care about you. From her point of view, either you make it, or you don't.
The point is that you ALREADY survived. Your Survival Strategy worked or you would not be reading these words.
Are you rich and famous?
Are you perfectly healthy and perfectly happy?
No. You have been Surviving.
In Survival, barely making it is all that matters. It does not matter if you stand at the top of the dung heap crowing about yourself, or hide out in the shadows quivering in imaginary fears after long ago giving away your Center, Authority, Dignity, and Voice to every 'authority figure' you create.
As David Gerrold says in A Rage For Revenge, which is Book 3 of his War Against The Chtorr series, "There is no enemy. We are all martyrs to Evolution."
If you Survive long enough to make babies, Mother Nature gives you Her stamp of approval. But... making babies is one of the unconscious behaviors any animal can do.
The question at hand is, can your consciousness override your carnality?
If all you have been doing is obeying your childhood Survival Strategy, where is your life?
We know where your life is going... tick... tick... tick... one second at a time. Your life is going away.
But where is your life right now?
That is a different question.
Right now yourour life is exactly here. Exactly now. This moment.
This moment is your life. This is where you life is. Right here. Right now.
What else can you do but Survive in your Fantasy World or in your Swamp?
How can you go somewhere else?
First you can refine your Self Observation subtly enough that you intensely experience when your Box and Gremlin step in, grab the drivers wheel, make the decisions about what you say, do, feel, and the Stories you think, to the degree that it hurts too much to let go of who decides where you place Your Attention. You can learn to sense when your Purpose shifts.
Your Attention is your most powerful and valuable resource.
You can learn to conscious place or not place your Attention anywhere.
You can learn to conscious Split Your Attention 5 different ways and stay sentient.
No one can learn these things for you.
More interestingly, no one can stop you from learning these things.
YOU CAN BECOME UNHOOKABLE
To be 'Hooked' means that you slide into automatic, unconscious, reactive behavior that feeds your Gremlin and costs you time, energy, love, and attention. The Gremlin eats it all. All you get to do is try to clean up the mess afterwards, but these kinds of messes leave scars on your Being, so there is no way to really clean them up. You just carry the burden of them as your reputation and Legends suffer for the rest of your life.
It is the equivalent of doing something illegal or immoral on the spur of a drunken moment, assuming no one was watching, yet you were filmed on a CCTV and end up getting slammed in court with a 30 years to life sentence.
Oops!
Being Hooked is a powerful set of experiences. For example, you can get Hooked by telling yourelf a gigantic Victim Story, such as, "Those bastards! I will get them! Oh! My god! They are going to take all the rewards and I will get nothing! No! I am a loser! I hate you, you asshole! Nobody sees me! Nobody cares about me!" etc. In a flash, your Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal (HPA) Axis unleashes a tsunami of adrenaline and other hormones into your blood system that stay for a minimum of 20 minutes!
The secret is that the mechanisms that start your organic weapons factory rolling take half-a-second or so to commence. Through Self Observation, you can lower your Numbness Bar enough to sense these chemical factories revving up getting ready to start before they start! This is when you have a choice about it.
Carlos Castenada's teacher Don Juan Matus calls this your 'Cubic Centimeter of Chance'. This is your tiny moment of Possibility to take Nonlinear action.
If you go sideways in that moment, for example, if you train yourself to shout out loud - no matter who is listening or watching you: "The reason is not the cause," then you open a Side Door for yourself and for the Space you are in. You Paint an exit for yourself and can jump into new territory, even if you have never been in that territory before and don't know how it goes there.
With Practice it won't take too long before you learn live in First Position - Centered, Grounded, and Bubbled - with your Sword of Clarity to hand, staying in Awe, Improvising.
This is how to stay alive enough so that when your Cubic Centimeters of Chance come, you take them!
Your Practice gets immediately real when you tell others, "If you can get me Hooked or offended I will pay you ten dollars cash."
YOU CAN EXIT REACTIVITY
If you do not know what starts your various forms of Reactivity you have little chance of avoiding it. If you or anyone goes into Reactivity it is either from Buttons, Hooks, Triggers, Traumas, Voices, or Imbalances. That is all there are (or at least a strong majority). We recommend that you simply memorize that list:
- BUTTONS - Your Survival Strategy Box is built with visible Buttons protruding from its sides and corners. Other people can see your Buttons, just as you can see theirs. You can watch children do a behavior that is guaranteed to push their parents' or teachers' Buttons, then the Parents or Teachers react by saying, "Shush! Sit still! Be quiet! Stop it! Don't do that!" or whatever. The children wait a few moments acting all angelic, then as soon as the parents or teachers resume their somnambulistic indoctrinations, the children do the same Button-pushing behavior and the Reactivity starts all over again. The Reactivity is entertainment for the children. The way out of 'Button Reactivity' is to go through Emotional Healing Process (EHP) Liquid States in which you return to the moment when you designed your Box with that Button installed, and you redesign your Box without the Button. This involves making a fundamentally new decision about yourself, about others, or about the world. It is a huge Liquid State while your Box design changes around. No Liquid State, no change.
- HOOKS - A Hook is thrown by one Gremlin at another Gremlin, trying to get him to 'bite' so that a Low Drama Gremlin Feeding Frenzy ensues. The way out of 'Hook Reactivity' includes two parallel and simultaneous Practices. First, start your Gremlin Transformation so that you learn what your Gremlin likes to eat and you put your Gremlin on a regular feeding schedule where you decide which Gremlin food he eats and when he eats it. Then your Gremlin won't be so hungry all the time, and will start to trust you that you will feed him regularly. Second, give your Gremlin a new interesting job to do, namely, to spot other Gremlins and tell you about them before they throw their Hooks at you. Then you Practice using the Red Cloth, like the cloth held by a bull fighter. It matters where you hold the Red Cloth, out in front of you, or at your side. Practice holding your Red Cloth at your side at all times so any Hooks go past you into the Red Cloth and you are not Hooked.
- TRIGGERS - A Trigger Sentence comes from you talking to yourself inside of your own head. The Trigger Phrase causes you to open the front door of your Parasitic Entity Café. The hungry Entities flood in and devour your tasty energy and attention. You have none left for yourself, so you sneak off to your bedroom and stay in their, seemingly for no reason, for a few days, a week, up to several weeks. Then, when you finally come out again, you wonder what that was all about, thinking, "I will never happen again..." And it doesn't, until it does. You absentmindedly say a Trigger Phrase to yourelf again, the Café Door opens, the starving Entities pour in and suck away your tasty energy again, etc. The way out of Trigger Reactivity is to get with your Possibility Team and read the script for the process given in S.P.A.R.K.135. In the process you shift into becoming a Trigger Hunter for the rest of your life. Instead of the Trigger Phrases attacking you, you capture them in the back of your Beep! Book.
- TRAUMAS - Incomplete Emotions from the past stay locked in your muscles, tissues, and nerves as 'Traumas'. The Traumas will stay there until the unexpressed Emotions at their core are experienced and expressed. If you do not know how to Consciously Feel, you will be afraid of consciously experiencing and expressing the big suppressed Emotions that are locked up in your body. Possibility Coaching offers several ways to Complete Incomplete Emotions, including Emotional Healing Processes (EHP). The way out of Trauma Reactivity is doing the level after level of Emotional Healing Processes. When there is no more Emotion locked up in your body, there is no more trauma. One further Distinction of note: Possibility Management Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) are NOT Cathartic, that is, NOT about trying to express and 'get rid of bad or negative emotions'. That is 'old tech' from the 1960s, derived from Baghwan Shri Rajneesh's 'Dynamic Meditation' Techniques and 'Primal Scream' therapies. From the viewpoint of Possibility Management, both Feelings and Emotions are extremely valuable, not a design error from God. The only design error from God is the size of the seed in an avocado. It is far too large for the price you have to pay for an avocado. It should be a much smaller seed! Ah, well! Don't waste your precious resources! Emotions are for healing, and Feelings are for creation. Possibility Management processes relocate and circulate your emotional energy around in its proper places in your body, which is called 'Cathexis', not Catharsis.
- VOICES - When you think a Story in your head, it is a Voice, usually coming from your Parent Egostate Contamination. The point is that the Voices did not come from you. Yes, you could capture each Voice in the back of your Beep! Book and use each one as the Doorway to a new Emotional Healing Process (EHP) in which you figure out exactly where you first heard the voice, where it came from, what its Purpose was, why you adopted it. And... an alternative route is to pull your Voice Blaster out of your Possibilitator Toolbelt, and shoot the Voice: "Blamo!" (NOTE: You actually say out loud what the Voice says, such as, "You're too stupid! You're too fat! Nobody likes you! Stay quiet! Stay in your place!" and then shout the word "Blamo!" out loud, no matter where you are or who is there.) If the Voice comes back, "Blam! Blam! Blam!" If the Voice comes back again, "Rat-a-tat! Rat-a-tat! Blamo!" shoot it again. Pretty soon the vampire Voice realizes it can get food easier from someone who does not use their Voice Blaster. Reactivity from Voices is gone.
- IMBALANCES - You have 5 Bodies (physical, intellectual, emotional, energetic, and Archetypal). Each of your 5 Bodies needs food and care. If you are not aware of your 5 Bodies and not feeding and caring for them, then they easily get out of balance. If any of your 5 Bodies get out of balance, you get Reactive. The way out of 'Imbalance Reactivity' is to develop a personal check-in sense of the state of each of your 5 Bodies. How is your Physical Body? Enough exercise and water? How is your mind, your Intellectual Body? Enough challenging new thoughtware upgrades? Enough time reading good books? How is your Emotional Body? Enough deep 4 Feelings communications? How is your Energetic Body? Is it Grounded, Bubbled, and Cleanses enough, filled with Golden Pearls of your own energy and information? How is your Archetypal Body? Enough 5 Body Intimacy Journeys into the Archetypal Domains?
By exiting Reactivity you regain so much energy and attention that your Box may not know what to do with it. This is an excellent sort of problem to have. You can take it to your Possibility Team and ask for Possibility about how to work with it.
YOU CAN REMOVE YOUR ENERGETIC BLOCKS
Relating depends on you being you. But... during childhood you probably installed Energetic Block in your Energetic Body as a way of disempowering yourself so that you would not be too big of a problem for your parents, teachers, perhaps even your grandparents or siblings to handle. This way they did not have to kill you. In a way you killed yourself first.
The point here, again, is that you already survived. But it has been a long time since you installed your Energetic Blocks reflexively, that is, in a state of despair or outrage. In that time you grew accustomed to being energetically distorted by the Energetic Block. You have grown accustomed to not Consciously Feeling what you feel, not speaking out with your Real Voice, not Making Boundaries, not Saying What You Want, not taking up Space, not Creating what you want, not asking Dangerous Questions, and not exploring and discovering what you want ot explore and Discover.
It is a straightforward Possiblity Coaching Process to remove your Energetic Blocks. This is a Self Surgery. However, Possibility Management runs on Archan Shamanism.
In traditional indigenous Shamanism, the great Shaman comes to your village and his patients line up outside the healing hut. One at a time you go in, lie on his table, he does his treatments on you, then you pay and leave. If you get ill again, you stand in line next time the great Shaman comes by. Inbetween times, the indegenous Shaman competes with other Shamans for fame and territory.
In Archan Shamanism, you meet with your Possibility Coach or fellow Possibilitator, you negotiate your exchange, then the Archan Shaman Holds Space and shows you how to do the Self Surgeries on yourself. After doing a Self Surgery on yourself, you are then qualified to Hold Space and show other Archans how to do the same Self Surgery on themselves. The treasure grows by giving it away. In this way, your Nonmaterial Value expands each time you go into a Liquid State and navigate your evolution in 3 Phase Healing.
Modern Culture uses a 2 Phase Healing model. In Phase 1, you are well. In Phase 2, you get 'sick' or 'unwell'. Then the modern doctor gives you pills to return to your original condition of health in Phase 1 - which still contains the same behavior seeds of the illness that it had which gave you the illness.
Archiarchy uses a 3 Phase Healing model. In Phase 1, you are well. In Phase 2, you go into an evolutionary Liquid State. Possibilitators, or Possibility Coaches, or Feelings Practitioners help you navigate your Liquid State to become someone new who no longer generates that dis-ease for yourself. This is how you enter Phase 3, by shifting into a new state of Being, becoming a different person, further along your evolutionary Path.
YOU CAN BYPASS YOUR MIND MACHINES
The point of having a Survival Strategy is to do whatever it takes to survive your situation. Human Beings are incredibly inventive with the kinds of Survival Strategies we implement. Most Survival Strategies are about twisting yourself into something that your are not, because who you are is too much for people. Many Survival Strategies focus on disempowering yourself to not be a problem for those people trying to take care of you through your childhood. These caretakers may be parents, grandparents, teachers, babysitters, relatives, older siblings, even doctors or psychologists.
Qualities that can seem 'dangerous' or 'unruly' to your caretakes can include intelligence, awareness, creativity, nonlinear possibility, asking questions the answers to which lie in a different Context, curiosity, Presence, wild ideas, love, playfulness, explorative nature, seeing spirits or ghosts, communicating with plants and animals, the ability to confront things that do not make sense to you, bending spoons with your mind, etc.
When you notice that you risk your life by being too aware, too present, too mighty, a swift and sure solution is required. One of these is called a Mind Machine.
A Mind Machine is an energetic construct that you install between your ears and your mind, between your heart and your mind, or between your mind and your mouth. Your particular Mind Machine could also be a combination of these.
There are about 13 or so styles of Mind Machines so far discovered. Some put in you a fog, some into confusion, some cause you to hear a different question than is asked, some put you into a 20 second time-delay, some cause you to say something different from what you think. Mind Machines are extremely clever and effective.
To disempower a Mind Machine, it does not have to be removed. Instead it is 'bypassed' or 'short circuited'.
Then after a month or two of disuse, is simply composts back into its elementary components and disapears leaving no trace. Bypassing a Mind Machine is a Self Surgery done in the presence of a Space Holder and witness.
No one can install a Mind Machine for you, or cause you to install one. You installed it yourself.
No one can deinstall your Mind Machine.
You put it in. You can take it out.
The steps to bypassing a Mind Machine are given at the Mind Machine website. Any Possibility Coach can Hold Space for you to do this Self Surgery. Once you bypass or short-circuit your Mind Machine, the changes appear immediately.
YOU CAN SEW UP YOUR BRAIN SPLITS
One clever way to endure the unendurable during childhood, the abuse, the neglect, the unexpected terrible shock of war and the destruction of animals and nature, the shouting between 'grownups', the violence on television and the news, etc. is to tear a rip in your energetic brain. The tear painfully distorts your brain so that you no longer expect or hope for your birthright, or what you know to be good or right, noble or dignified. Instead you make do with whatever will allow you to survive.
A Possibility Coach can take you through the process of sewing up your Brain Splits.
The process is emotionally intense, and loud, an hour or more long.
As with all the other Possibility Management healing and evolution Processes, you will need to be able to Consciously Feel - which means to Inner Navigate your Feelings and Emotions - before you can do the Sewing Up Brain Splits Process.
Consciously Feeling is not taught in modern culture. In fact, Consciously Feeling is forbidden by modern culture because when you learn to Consciously Feel you gain too much Authority by growing in awareness beyond what modern culture can control. You can learn to Consciously Feel outside of modern culture through using a combination of several Practices:
- By reading Four Feelings And What To Do With Them by Valerie Lankford.
- By studying Conscious Feelings: a guide to personal, relational, and cultural revolution by Clinton Callahan in your Possibility Team and doing all of the Experiments together.
- By participating in an online or off line Heart Gym.
- By listening to feelings podcasts at Next Culture Radio.
- By watching feelings videos at Possibility Management TV, such as S.T.A.R.R.s.
- By participating in online or offline Feelings Worktalks or Workshops (listed at the PM TeamUp Calendar).
- By participating in Building Communication Bridges (BCB).
- By participating in an online or offline Rage Club.
- By participating in an online or offline Fear Club.
- By watching the 140+ Emotional Healing Process (EHP) videos at https://createpossibility.mystrikingly.com.
- By participating in a 5-day Expand The Box training.
Sewing Up Brain Splits is a Self Surgery done in the presance and Held Space of a Possibilitator or Possibility Coach. It is a surgery, which means that gentleness and care are required for recovery afterwards. Give yourself plenty of time resting, and plenty of fresh clean water to drink. Rejoice as your 5 Bodies reorder in response to your healed energetic brain, your recovered Potentials come online, and the Universe can interact with your new shape.
YOU CAN REMOVE YOUR BRAIN IMPLANTS
It turns out to be far more common than we previously thought that Human Beings install Brain Implants. A Brain Implant is an energetic construct that disturbs your awareness or distorts your capability. It changes the ways you can interact with Reality. You installed each implant as part of your overall childhood Survival Strategy.
Once you are skilled at Conscious Feelings and navigating Emotional Healing Processes and Self Surgeries, you are ready to remove your Brain Implants and regain your true power and presence.
Implantectomies are a standard offer from Possibility Coaches.
Usually people keep their Brain Implants as a souvenir on the workbench of their personal energetic laboratory, but sometimes recently, people have been offering these precious constructs to another little girl or boy somewhere in the world to install in their own brain to save their lives. Both the Brain Implant and the recipients are grateful for this.
YOU CAN END YOUR PAST LIFE VOWS
It is not necessary to believe in the reality of Past Lives to suffer under or heal from the energetic and psychological constrictions caused by a Past Life Vow.
The idea is that at the moment of death in a Past Life, you might have made a promise to yourself, or a curse against other people or the Universe itself. Your Being distorts itself and then you die.
And then you are reborn in a next life, but you do not remember the Vow you made in the Past Life. Yet it continues to determine who you can be in your life whether you remember the Vow or not.
Possibility Coaches can Hold Space for a Past Life Vow process where you follow your present Emotions back into the last moments of a previous life and detect what was going on. You find out what the strong Emotions are about, and with whom. And you find your Old Decisions.
Only then do you have a chance of making New Decisions of substance and power that gives you a Start Over moment, a new identity through which you can relate to the world.
It can take more than one Past Life Vow process to get to the bottom of things. Clinton Callahan reports personally returning to one Past Life experience 7 times before it resoved in utterly astonishing ways, far different from what he ever imagined.
YOU CAN MAKE NO ASSUMPTIONS AND WITHDRAW YOUR EXPECTATIONS
Possibilitators have researched for decades and have discovered the connections between Assumptions, Expectations (or Conclusions), Resentment, and Revenge.
This is a string of creations that only Human Beings can make. No other animal does this, because no other animal makes up Story Worlds and Believes in them.
Once you have made an Assumption and Assumed that your Assumptions is true, you change your Assumption into an Expectation.
Then, when your Expectation is not fulfilled, it changes into a Resentment.
Once you have a Resentment, Intimacy dies, because it takes only one Resentment to kill Intimacy.
Once you live in Resentment, you grant yourself the license to take Revenge against the person you Resent.
By making even one Assumption, you have killed Intimacy with Revenge.
Are you sure you want to do this?
When you look more deeply at your Shadow Purpose, you will find that this was your Gremlin's intention all along.
Many people arrange to relate with each other only to have an ongoing and nearby source of Gremlin food.
This is a sad thought.
And... it is not this way in Radical Reality.
Getting to Radical Reality requires Gremlin Transformation work so that you feed your Gremlin something else besides the heart of your partner.
In the company of a Gremlin Transformation Coach, plus the members of your 3Cell or Possibility Team, you can gain the strength, perserverence, and perspective to extract yourself from this pernicious life-and-possibility-devouring, Gremlin feeding series of creations.
The consensus from the Practitioners is that it is worth the effort.
YOU CAN CHOOSE TO SERVE YOUR BRIGHT PRINCIPLES
The Universe and Life itself makes a new kind sense after you hear about Bright Principles.
If you flow Consciosness at large through a 'consciousness prism' it will splits into its componenent parts, the '99 Names of God'.
So?
And?
And each person is born with a resonance - if not a pre-arranged contract - to serve a set of three to five of these facets of Consciousness, their own personal set of Bright Principles.
If you Scan those Possibilitatators who have Distilled their Bright Principles out of their life, and even more so, those who have chosen to define their life as being in the service of these Archetypal forces of Nature. Their specific set of Bright Principles shines through them and inspires what they perceive, what they care for, and what they can create for othes in the Spaces where they do their work.
The multi-step procedure for Distilling your Bright Principles is detailed in Chapter 8 of the book, Conscious Feelings by Clinton Callahan. It is also online at the Bright Principles website.
After using the 30 guideline questions to investigate numerous dimensions of your life, you circle and collect the most potent phrases that capture and mirror core meaningfulness and inspiration for your world. These you collect to a fresh page and begin to put in an order that radiates Archetypal poetry.
A minimum set of 3 Bright Principles is required to build a full set, including at least one Sword Principle, one Heart feeding Principle, and one Soul or Being feeding Principle. Remember, these Principles are not for you or about you. They are signatures of the Archetypal services that come well through you for others. People come to you to receive the benefits of your Bright Principles, and you get to come alive as they flow through you into your Work Spaces.
Why do you come alive? Because the Bright Principles have no hands or feet. They originate in the fabric of the Universe and have no mouth or Voice of their own. As you change yourself into the Space through which your Bright Principles can do their Work in the world, they are grateful, and give you 10% as some kind of Selfishly Generous exchange.
From a Possibilitator's perspective, it is quite a good deal.
Your Destiny is optional, and yet, you can have your Destiny now, and for the rest of your life. Most people do not Choose their Destiny, so it remains docile, inactivated. Such a sad waste of Potential. Even you have not yet Chosen to be of Service to your Destiny. Choosing your Destiny - meaning, Choosing to center your life around Serving your Bright Principles and letting the rest of your life fall where it may - is an Archetypal procedure. It occurs in the Conscious light of the full attention of the Elders of your Village, or it does not occur at all. It definitely does not occur in your mind.
Expand The Box and Possibility Lab Trainers are capable of holding and navigating the particular Archetypal Space where a person gains the option of first checking, and then Choosing their Bright Principles. A lot is left in your hands, as it was with Frodo Baggins and Samwise Gamgee in the map-rich Lord of the Rings stories from J. R. R. Tolkein.
YOU CAN DECONSTELLATE YOURSELF
When a first child is born, they look for a role model of how to be a Human Being. Ordinarily they choose the dominant figure of their appropriate gender. This can vary if the role model is abusive, or absent, but the pattern often holds. This is how a Human Being finds their place to fit into their existing family structure.
When a second child is born and looks for a role model, the first and most obvious role model is already taken. They Scan around for their place and often end up copying a grandmother, uncle, or other close relative.
Then a third child is born. The top two role models are taken. Where to look? Often an outcast from the family is chosen as the role model, simply because family dynamics often circle around that individual and people's attention is going there.
These patterns have been repeated generation after generation since time immemorial.
What can be done? Your role model fills up your interior with 'not yourself'. You end up with speech patterns, behavior habits, attitudes, beliefs, prejudices, worldviews, tricks, even life goals and sworn retributions that are not your own, yet you feel forced to follow them as if your character is rigidly constellated into a frameworlk as big and solid as the signs of the Zodiac.
Possibility Management has discovered that being adaptive to your role model is a Survival Strategy. If you have started into your Adulthood Path, your childhood Survival Strategy becomes optional, and can fall off your back like dried skin off he back of a molting snake. It used to protect you. It used to be your interface with the world. It used to BE the only you that you know. Now it has become your prison.
Through a particular transformational healing Space you can Deconstellate Yourself. It is a Self Surgery, which can be navigated by a Possibility Coach. Part of the procedure is to give an artifact of the role model back to the person you copied it from. Suddenly you get to Start Over again as yourself.
YOU CAN DEBAPTIZE YOURSELF
Whether into an indigenous relationship with 'the ancestors', or a religious or political belief system, or a modern culture idea such as, "I need money to live," you have been baptized into thinking that an idea of the Reality is the Reality.
This, of course, separates you from Reality.
Reality comes with no ideas attached. None.
Thinking you have the 'best' or the 'one true and right' belief system is Gremlin's basis for war.
As much as you might want to secretly be the 'best' or to have the 'one true and right' belief system as a Survival Strategy, you are nonfunctional as a Possibilitator until you stop tithing, stop paying obeisance, stop bowing down, stop giving 'lipservice' to your political agenda. Reality has no politics.
All gameworlds are Bullshit.
All of them.
Even the one you just made up.
You do not have to believe in a gameworld in order to fly it. The same as an airplane. Whether or not you believe in the airplane, it can fly, but there is a lot of Reality at play in an airplane. If you do not pay total attention to the Reality of an airplane, you will forget to put your landing gear down before setting the plane onto the tarmac of the runway.
A Possibilitator needs to be as close to Reality as possible to do their work. This means that to be a functional Possibilitator, at some point you will need to Debaptize yourself from anything and everything you were ever baptized into.
No one can Debaptize you from anything.
On the other hand, no one can stop you from Debaptizing yourself from anything.
Debaptizing Yourself works best is a Space held by a Possibility Coach or Trainer outside in nature while facing some kind of experiential test or hardship.
YOU CAN DEBARRIERIZE YOURSELF
Barriers come in many forms, for example, old decisions, Past Life Vows, adopted opinions or philosophies from comic books or teachers, viewpoints or biases from your father, historical perspectives of heroes you studied, understandings taught at the university, house rules of your parents, cultural customs or holiday traditions, beliefs from sacred books, recipes from your mother or grandmother, unspoken social norms, religious, political, or economic insanities believed by many and used to underpin advertising on media and billboards, etc. Each Barrier you consciously or unconsciously defend stands between you and Reality.
In the company of, or following the specific instructions from, a Possibility Coach, you can Debarrierize Yourself.
Debarrierizing Yourself is a very personal expansion and gradual dissolution process that can take from several weeks to several months, or even a year or more, depending on the depth to which you cling to your Barriers.
The power behind clinging to any particular Barrier comes from your unconscious Fears.
Some people may try to us psychoactive drugs to break free of Barriers. We strongly do NOT recommend this. Why? Because if you do not already have the Matrix in your Being to walk in the world without those Barriers, the shock of the drug ripping the Barriers away can possibly damage your psyche for life as it desperately installs artificial internal buffers to replace the Barriers that are suddenly not there anymore. And, if you do build the Matrix during your slow and steady Debarrierizing Process, the Barriers will fall away from you by their own weight and the drugs will be completely unnecessary.
Debarrierizing Yourself is a Self Surgery done under the guidance of a Possibility Coach.
YOU CAN DECONTAMINATE YOUR ADULT EGOSTATE
The Human Being can Identify itself with any number of characters, retaining the agility of a chameleon or an octopus for shifting colors and shapes as a Survival Strategy, to not oppose, to become invisible, to threaten, to laugh it off, to appear to be crazy and uncontrollable, to scare your opponents. As you proceed along your Adulthood Path of Initiatory Processes, each one giving you the capacity to take Responsibility in an area for which you never imagined one could take Responsibility, you begin to recognize larger identifications. These larger identifications were originally classified into Parent, Adult and Child Egostates by the Transactional Analysis researcher, Eric Berne.
In recent years, Possibility Management researchers have carried this investigation further, distinguishing 3 additional Egostates: Gremlin, Demon, and Archetypal. The Adult Egostate turns out to be the gateway to the Archetypal Egostate, where Human Beings are designed to live and interact.
Your objective may be to come to rest in the Adult Egostate, and not be distracted by the Child, Parent, Gremlin, or Demon Egaostates any longer.
But... what if your Adult Egostate is Contaminated by one of the other Egostates? This means that even when you feel like you are an Adult, even when you try so hard to speak or interact as an Adult, the feedback you get and what you create in the world indicates that your 'X' on the map is that you are still acting like a Child, Parent, Gremlin, or Demon.
Most gameworlds and personal development Paths have somehow ignored the existence of the Contaminated Adult Egostate. This could be why gameworlds such as the United States Government, Russia, Syria, Israel, Akashinga, Radical Honesty, etc. have nearly failed in 2025. The primary Spaceholders were not required by the gameworld to Decontaminate their Adult Egostate.
Possibility Management provides services of Adult Egostate Decontamination.
Over the years we have discovered - the 'hard' way - that before someone can successfully Decontaminate their Adult Egostate, they must first Transform their Gremlin through Gremlin Transformation processes, or else the Gremlin will undermine, eat, and destroy any possibility of Adult Egostate Decontamination.
Therefore, the Adult Egostate Decontamination Path starts with Gremlin Transformation.
Gremlin Transformation was intended to take place when you were 18 years of age. You are probably already quite a bit older than that already. Gremlin Transformation and Adult Egostate Decontamination can still take place, but they require more time and effort to unlearn habits that have already become crystallized. Now it takes a couple of years of dedicated Work. But don't worry. It is entertaining transformational healing Work, and you will be in good company.
YOU CAN SIGNAL YOUR ARCHETYPAL LINEAGE THAT YOU WANT TO GET TO WORK
You will need to be ongoingly Present, Sword out, Centered, Grounded, well Bubbled, and sourcing the Context of Radical Reality in your life and in the world before you have any chance of jacking-in to your Archetypal Lineage. Please Notice that I did not say, "Perfectly Present..." etc. I said, "Ongoingly Present." There is a Universe of difference. If you do not already understand the difference, please go back to study the Gremlin Self Cannibalism website.
Trying to jack-in to your Archetypal Lineage prematurely - that is, before you are ongoingly Present, Sword out, Centered, Grounded, Bubbled, and sourcing the Context of Radical Reality - is problematical in that your Archetypal Lineage will at first trust you. It will send you a job down the 'tube' for you to do. The job could be anything. It could be, "Go introduce yourself to that milllionaire-looking man at the First Class waiting lounge at the airport and give him your elevator pitch." "Send €1000 to this Deep Green Resistance activist project." "Organize a trash pick-up at this tropical resort instead of having a vacation." "Write a 5-page article about your last Emotional Healing Process and publish it online." Etc.
If you don't immediately jump up and get it done, in a short time, your Archetypal Lineage will send a second job down the tube to your workbench. But the tube is already filled with your undone first job. Then is sends you a third job and your tube is jammed. Unjamming your Archetypal Lineage tube is nearly impossible, almost as impossible as getting them to trust you again.
It is far better to be more than ready with your Compass of Reality calibrated, your gameworld flying enough that you have already quit your corporate job, your relationship flying enough that it serves as a Space through which your combined Bright Principles can do their work in the world.
Before then... you still have things to do. For example, you could get yourself an Archetypal Lineage Talisman and wear it around your neck every day, located between the top of your heart and your throat, NOT as jewelry, but as a message to your Archetypal Lineage that you are on the Path of preparing yourself to some-day jack-in.
Your Archetypal Lineage will Notice.
It is a very fine sensation when your Archetypal Lineage Notices your gestures.
Meanwhile, you can Hold Space for Possibility Team meetings where you all figure out which of the 4 Lineages your own personal Archetypal Lineage resonates with the most (Village Weaver, Guardian, Evolutionary, Gameworld Builder). Keep in mind that if you are building a new gameworld, you will probably need to fulfill jobs that would ordinarily be handled by someone in another Lineage than yours. That person simply did not show up yet for your gameworld.
Radical Reality In Groups
YOU CAN LEARN TO CAVITATE AND INHABIT NEW SPACE
All the Spaces you have been in before have probably been inhabited by Human Beings already for thousands of years. This is because for most people, the Context and Purpose of the Spaces they can create are confined to what can be perceived by their Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware (S.H.I.T.). In other words, capitalist patriarchal empire, corporate owned political empire, catholic / muslim / indegenous church belief systems.
If you and others do not Cavitate and Inhabit newly Contexted Spaces, Gaia's Human Experiment on Earth is over.
Human Beings are designed to be Initiated into Navigating Spaces in the Archetypal Domains. We are designed to interact with each other and our Potentials using Archetypal Forces of Nature. We are not designed to worry ourselves neurotically to death over how the hell are we going to earn enough money this month to pay for our food, rent, and NetFlix subscription.
Learning to Cavitate Space is simple and straightforward. Watch the demo videos with Anne-Chloé Destremau at https://cavitatespace.mystrikingly.com. Then Practice at your Possibility Team.
It can also help if you read the amazing novel, Cavitation: the emergence of Archiarchy, by Clinton Callahan.
But Cavitating the Space is not your barrier. Your barrier is probably your modern culture Fear, your modern culture Baggage, and your modern culture lack of Clarity about What You Want to create new Space for.
The thing is, if you do not learn to Go Nonlinear and Invent and Inhabit radically new Context and Purpose for Spaces that never existed before in the entire history of humanity on Earth, we are fucked.
Each and every element of this challenge is learnable using either Pressure or Vacuum forms of Rapid Learning which could be the central enthusiasm behind your weekly Possibility Team, or your Bridgehouse, or your Archiarchy Invention Center.
Yes?
Possible first step? Do the EHP that is in your guts right now preventing your from taking immediate action.
Then take the action.
Why not? You want to stay alone and keep worrying about how to pay for food and rent?
YOU CAN SET THE CONTEXT OF EVERY SPACE YOU ARE IN
The skill of learning to Set Context derives from the skill of Asking, in particular, Asking questions to which the answer lies in some Space that is vastly different from the Context of the current Space you are in.
Some people wait around, hoping that someone at their workplace or neighborhood or family will start calling together Spaces in a Context that is Regenerative.
How long are you going to continue that Self Deception?
The one who can Set Regenerative Context is the one reading these words right now, namely, you.
We can count them on the fingers of one finger.
All those other people? They are too scared, too hypnotized, or too neurotically distracted. They have not developed the reserves of Time, energy, and Attention that you have.
You can decide now to be he Spaceholder of every Space you are in, no matter who the designated Spaceholder appears to be. Then you can learn and practice Asking the kinds of Quest-ions that Set New Context and Possibility into those Spaces for the benefit of all, especially for the benefit of the life forms born into the next 7 generations.
Such Quest-ions could include:
Whose Space is this?
What is the Purpose of this Space?
Of all possible Purposes, what could be the most imporant Purpose that we could be meeting in here?
Is there a bigger wish to submit to a blind hierarchy serving a Hidden Purpose, or a wish to creatively collaborate for a brighter future on Earth?
Would you want to keep serving this organization if its purpose is part of the problem?
What if you knew it was possible to meet to help each other have a fine life in the service of a Bright Future for Earth?
Again, whose meeting is this?
If it is not a meeting that liberates human potentials but instead monetizes nature as ecocide, do you want to stay here?
What would be a Context for this meeting that would truly inspire you?
YOU CAN LEAVE HIERARCHY IN EVERY SPACE YOU ARE IN
If you are in a hierarchy it is because you create it yourself.
You do not have to bow down to anyone anywhere. You can meet and exchange equally with them. To hide out is to create hierarchy.
Where are you creating hierarchy instead of participating and co-creating full out?
If you have a cool idea and you withhold it, you are dedicated to killing the Space or the gameworld. Why is that?
What are you really feeling?
What if you simply say what you are feeling and say what you want, including your cool idea?
To not do that is to plot your own demise. Why? Because you will get bored of life and then may end up as a suicide statistic.
YOU CAN ESTABLISH TORUS TECHNOLOGY IN EVERY SPACE YOU ARE IN
Do you carry around a Purple Card in your wallet?
If you carry around a Purple Card, then you can pull it out and flash it to everyone any time someone in your meeting circle Reacts emotionally and distracts the meeting into their own personal process instead of staying Present as a creatively co-collaborating Adult.
You pull out your Purple Card and say, "I pull out my Purple Card on you! Please ask for one or two people to Hold Space for you to go have this Emotional Healing Process (EHP) so that it can come to completion and give you its treasure. Otherwise it will be wasted in this Space."
Nothing can stop you from using Torus Meeting Technologies in any Space where you meet with people.
As soon as people understand how amazingly well Resistance Decision Making works in the circle, or the Frying Pan, or Proposals, or Nodes and the Infinity Ring, etc. they will be convinced. They will never want to return to the Rules of Parliamentary Procedure, or to the Patriarchy.
It is up to you to Take A Stand for what you know about that works better than what people are using now. The patriarchal meeting where the boss already decided what is happening crushes creation and invention and is a waste of time. Sitting in a meeting because you are getting paid by the hour to be there... how do you sell your Integrity so cheaply?
How can you come back to yourself before your life has slid by unnoticed?
YOU CAN IDENTIFY A WITCH HUNT JUST BEFORE IT IS ABOUT TO BEGIN
The Witchhunt is a Survival Strategy that awakens and feeds unconsciuos Gremlins.
Have you ever experienced a Witchunt directed at you? It is scary as hell. It can flash into existence so fast, destroying any chance of creative collaboration as people panic, pull back, and stay silent, hoping the Witchhunt does not turn on them next...
Most of the world is filled with people owned by their unconscious Gremlins.
This is not natural.
It happened because Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes where Gremlins are given a leash around their neck and commanded to sit at your side (the opposite side as your Sword hand...) were banished some 10,000 years ago as Patriarchal cultures began to rise and take over from the Matriarchal hunter gatherer cultures.
Patriarchy uses Witchhunting to suppress independent thinking and acting.
The Possibilitator's key is to put Witchhunting 'on the table' at your Team meeting. Discuss what Witchhunting is. Research Witchhunting's Purpose and how it goes. Ask people to tell stories of the Witchhunts they have been in. Did they start the Witchhunt? Or were they the victim?
Or were they the 'silent ones' who could have said something and caused the Witchhunt to stop, but didn't?
The technique of creating a mob to frighten and hate, and then attack a 'witch', is a clever Survival Strategy, usually used by a person who on the surface appears to be 'weak' or 'frail' and 'quiet', with no Voice of their own. But when they are about to be found out, they unleash their true Ace Up Their Sleeve, the Witchhunt weapon.
Suddenly they can speak. They say, "You abused me. You ignored me. You excluded me. You don't care. You are hard and cold. You are arrogant and superior. You have no heart."
They expertly twist Stories about the circumstantial evidence into an indictment that is sewed shut.
The rest of the people want to be 'socially correct' according to the ever-changing LGBGTQ etc. religion standards, so they do not disagree, standing silently aside, watching, with their gleeful unconscious Gremlins ready for a feeding frenzy.
The crowd screams silently, "Watch the Spaceholder fall. Anyone who is big enough to take a stand, to speak out, to create, hold, and navigate transformational space deserves to die. They are not special. They are evil! Yeah!"
One of your jobs as Context Setter and Spaceholder is to put the Poop On The Table about the common Witchhunting Survival Strategy. "Does everyone want to allow Witchhunting to happen in this Space? Or would you prefer that people use their intuition to ask questions, make Boundaries, say what they Want, and collaboratively co-create an open and exploratory Context for this Space?"
If you do not ignite these awarenesses about Witchhunting into the Context of your meeting, then you are helping to get yourself betrayed and 'burned at the stake', which is a Gremlin Purpose.
The instant you detect a Witchhunt starting to brew you must make a radical decision.
It could be a life or death decision for you and your friends.
Either you turn and vanish from the Space, or you stand there and put the Witchhunt Survival Strategy on the table to take the Space into breakdown.
Many people have died because they made the 'wrong' decision.
Think about it.
Witchhunting is what the Nazis did against the Gypsies and Jews during WWII.
Witchhunting is what the Hutus did to the Tutsis in the 1994 Rwanda genocide.
Witchhunting is what the Khmer Rouge did to Cambodians in their 1975 to 1979 genocide.
Witchhunting is what Mao Tse Tung did to Chinese people in his 'land reform', 'great leap forward', and 'cultural revolution'.
Witchhunting is what Lenin and Stalin did to Russians and Ukrainians in their 'revolution', 'civil war, and 'collectivization'.
Witchhunting is what USA did in Iraq and Iran in their global 'war on terror'.
On and on, adding up to more than 265 million citizens killed by their own government in the last 100 years.
The term 'democide' was coined by researcher R.J. Rummel from the University of Hawaii, defining it as 'government murder of its own people'. He collected data and showed that governments have witchhunted and killed far more of their own people than the total number of people who died in all wars.
Whether you choose to run when you sniff a Witchhunt brewing, or you decide to stay and try to Cause Transformation, Radical Reality could well be your tool of choice.
Experiments for Entering Radical Reality
No one can experiment for you.
More interestingly, no one can stop you from experimenting.
This is Radical Reality.
Experimenting builds Matrix for collecting more consciousness.
With more consciousness, you see more options to choose from, including the frightening ones.
What you decide, however, is still up to you.
(IMPORTANT NOTE: We STRONGLY recommend NOT trying all of the below Experiments at the same time. Read one, do it for one week. Then read the next Experiment, do it for one week, in the given order. Also, mix in doing other Experiments on other StartOver.xyz websites in between these Experiments. This procedure will help you better integrate the Radical Reality Matrix you build.
SHIFT FROM VERBAL REALITY TO EXPERIENTIAL REALITY FOR 1 WEEK AS A DOORWAY INTO RADICAL REALITY
Matrix Code RADREALI.01
Modern culture hammers you into Verbal Reality as a child, even before going to school. Propose to you Possibility Team to shift out of Verbal Reality and into Experientially Reality during your meeting. Study the Experiential Reality website together by reading the sections out loud and asking questions. Then, by using either grapes or pieces of apple, do the 'Experiential Reality Experiment' as described in the website. Use the group intelligence of your Team to confirm when someone has entered Experiential Reality or not. For some people it will be easier than others. Try to help each other so that all of you make it.
Once you are each in Experiential Reality, stay there for the entire rest of your Possibility Team meeting. How do you know you are there? You will be moving more slowly, noticing a lot more details, speaking with simple vocabulary, not using concepts spoken from intellect to intellect but instead using poetic experiential descriptions spoken from Being to Being, not reacting to each other but rather intimately journeying along with one another.
Then, for the next 7 days, stay in Experiential Reality, especially while interacting with other people, and while being alone.
(IMPORTANT NOTE: The only time we ask you NOT to go into Experiential Reality is when you are driving. Your 5 Bodies know how to drive. Let them do their job. Experiential Reality can seem like an altered state of consciousness, not safe for driving. Thank you.)
At your next Possibility Team meeting, report back on what you Noticed about the efforts you made to stay in - or return to - Experiential Reality. What did you learn? What did you see?
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.01 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
SKILL UP WITH PRACTICING RADICALLY NEUTRAL SELF OBSERVATION FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.02
Propose to your Possibility Team that, in order to prepare yourselves for entering Radical Reality, you all begin together the ongoing Practice of Self Observation. Study the entire Self Observation website and discuss the ideas there until everyone is clear about how Self Observation goes and the Purpose and Value of this Practice. Then begin Self Observation during the Possibility Team meeting for 20 minutes of ordinary interactions. Then stop and report to everyone what each person Notices, but continue the Self Observation while people report. Be sure everyone knows that Self Observation is Radically Neutral Self Observation, observing yourself with no judgments, cricicisms, comparisons, or stories attached - NONE AT ALL, EVER! Then continue Self Observation each day for the next 7 days, reporting in during the week, or asking questions of each other in your Possibility Team's Telegram Group. Check in again about your Self Observation at the beginning of your next Possibility Team meeting. Consider the Possibility of continuing your Self Observation Practice fort he rest of your life. It is one of the most effective ways to Build Matrix that we Possibilitators have ever discovered.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.02 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
STUDY THE 'EYE OF THE NEEDLE' WEBSITE FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.03
Propose to your Possibility Team that, in order to prepare yourselves for entering Radical Reality, you spend one entire meeting reading through and discussing the ideas in the Eye Of The Needle website, its ramifications for society in general, and you in particular. Carry the question with you: "Where am I on the Path right now?" Give each other clear and specific Feedback and Coaching about where each one is on the Path. Then do one or more of the Eye Of The Needle Experiments at this Possibility Team meeting and also during the week. The Purpose of these efforts is to use a new Thoughtmap about your life and its Purpose. The Eye of the Needle map of the Path indicates dead ends and traps, such as 'success', or the 'Handsome Holy Tribal Man' which modern culture does not reveal. It does not matter where your 'X' on the map is. It only matters that your 'X' of where you are on the map is accurate. Because from there you can do healing processes, Take A Stand, StartOver, or begin new Practices that move you in the direction you might want to go. Keep the Eye of the Needle map in your mind and heart all week long. Share it with 3 random people during the week and listen to what they think and feel about the map. Beware that they may have strong thoughts or feelings. Do not take them personally. Let people have whatever thoughts and feelings they want to have about the Eye of the Needle map.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.03 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
DROP AS MUCH BAGGAGE AS YOU CAN IN 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.04
Come together in your Possibility Team and Propose to debaggage yourselves for this next week. Start at the meeting and each person make a list in your Beep! Book of Baggage you are carrying. Specifically look for the kind of Baggage that would stop you or burden you when trying to enter Radical Reality. Yes, there are Vampires in your life, such as lawns, pools, storage areas full of boxes of your belongings, pets, credit card debts, incomplete agreements that you have not ended, even Past Life Vows that still drag on your heart and Being. But there is also Baggage that keeps you from going 'RADICAL'. These could be Beliefs, staying in one of the 8 Prisons, dreams that you carry from your mother or father, promises you made to carry on the family business, etc. Connect with the others in your Possibility Team to help each other make their list as complete as possible for the moment, then circle each person's top 3 Baggage burdens, and help each person make a plan to take the steps to eliminate at least one of these this week. Work in teams if needed, getting rid of excess belongings, writing letters to change old agreements, confront Beliefs, or identify and question old Assumptions or Expectations. At the beginning of your next Possibility Team meeting, check in about what Baggage you were able to get rid of, and what the effect of that has been. Clearly, getting rid of your Baggage is a Practice that can last for years. The good thing is that, now you have started. You can more easily keep the momentum going.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.04 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
ENTER RADICAL SIMPLICITY FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.05
In your Possibility Team, Propose to study together the Radical Simplicity website. Use people's questions to deepen the Context of your Possibility Team and more deeply connect. This means to put your personal Purposes regarding Radical Simplicity on the table, as in Poop On The Table, and look at it closely together. The important thing here is to look for what you have in common rather than what you have that separates you. Ask peole to list what you have in common in their Beep! Books, and then engage the idea: "What if we focus on what we have in common and let the rest of our lives fall where they may?"
This is a powerful and Radically Simple way to work together. It can be an extremely rewarding way of life.
NOTE: This Experiment is NOT a "My life is simpler than your life!" contest! This Experiment is an investigation into what makes for a rewarding and valuable and inspiring human life outside of the modern culture paradigm of consume, own, have, waste, consume some more. Explore together how Radical Simplicity can feed you at deeper and more profound levels of well being together. Then, for the next 7 days, become more and more Radically Simple, in your life and work and relationships.
Write and publish online a 3-5 page article about what you are discovering while exploring Radical Simplicity in your life. Read your article at your next Possibility Team meeting.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.05 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
EXPAND YOUR CONSCIOUS ASSHOLE SKILLS FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.06
In your next Possibility Team meeting, study the Asshole Training website together, discussing the ideas and what they could mean in your life. Read the articles slowly and carefully, questioning every word. So many people have been 'civilized'. So many people still try to survive by Being Adaptive, being a 'nice girl' or a 'good boy'. It is killing them, both literally and figuratively. Asshole Training is successful when being a Conscious Asshole has become an Identity Shift option for you at any moment in every situation. For the next 7 days, be a Conscious Asshole by leaving your ordinary Box behind and let Archetypal forces of nature such as your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage move through you to do their work in the world.
As you grow more familiar with Navigating Archetypal Spaces, it could be that you prefer to never leave the option of being a Conscious Asshole behind. You could become a Conscious Asshole for the rest of your life. This is how your Dragon can speak, your Mission can be accomlished, and you can make the world a better place for life on Earth. There are so many unconscious assholes holding false positions of power in politics, economics, business, military, and religion... who is going to stop them? Where are the Conscious Assholes to stand up and say, "No. This stops here. That is not allowed, ever. This gameworld is over!" You might even take on a new and badly needed Archan profession: Gameworld Demolition. Report back in your next Possibility Team about the new intimacy territories you were able to create through being a Conscious Asshole.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.06 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
RADICALLY SAY WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU DON'T WANT FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.07
Now that you can be a Conscious Asshole, you are certainly bold enough to start admitting to yourself and also saying to other people what you want.
But... how do you know what you want?
How do you know which 'I' is doing the 'wanting'? Is it your Box? Your mother? Your Gremlin? Your Past Life Vow? Your Beliefs?
In your next Possibility Team meeting, study the Say What You Want website together, discussing the ideas and what they could mean in your life. Write down in your Beep! Book what you want and what you do not want. Also write which 'I' is doing the wanting and the not wanting.
Compare lists with the others in your Team. Find out which wants come from the Being, from the Bright Principles, from E.C.C.O., and from the Archetypal Lineages. Perhaps there are hidden projects or Gameworlds that were not identified before because people never dared to admit or say out loud to others what they truly want.
Then during the week, 13 times each day, Radically say what you want and what you don't want. Tell it to friends, neighbors, colleagues, bosses, clients, and strangers. Say it in such as way that it is an admission, not a command. What you want is about you, not about other people giving you what you want, or stopping doing something that irritates your Box. At your next Possibility Team meeting, report about what happened as you said want you want and what you don't want. Each person should make a statement about who you have become now.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.07 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
PRACTICE RADICAL HONESTY IN YOUR RELATING WITH YOURSELF AND OTHERS FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.08
In your next Possibility Team meeting, study the Radical Honesty website together, discussing the ideas and what they could mean in your life. The term 'Radical Honesty' comes from the title of the book Radical Honesty: how to transform your life by telling the truth, by Brad Blanton. Investigate how Radical Honesty starts with you being Radically Honest about what you want and what you do not want.
In your meeting, break out into groups of 3, with one person being the Client who interacts with the Possibility who is practicing Radical Honesty, and the third person is the Coach who coaches the Possibilitator about their level of authenticity in their Radical Honesty.
Then for the next 7 days, practice being Radically Honest at home and at work. Ask for people to give you Radically Honest Feedback and Coaching about the value they perceive in your practice of Radical Honesty with them. Be sure to get out your Beep! Book and write down what they tell you about what works and what does not work regarding your Radical Honesty skills, and also ask them to tell you anything you could try next time that would make your Radical Honesty even more valuable. Report back to your Possibility Team by reading them the Feedback and Coaching your received during the week at your next meeting.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.08 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
STOP EVERYTHING... EVERYTHING - AT LEAST FOR A MOMENT - AND HIT BOTTOM FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.09
It does NOT take much time. It is NOT dramatic. The Bottom has always been there. It will never go away. The Bottom is Reality with no Stories attached. It is what is is, exactly as it is. At the Bottom you are not 'good' and not 'bad'. Neither is anything else. There are no hopes, no dreams, and no curses.
This Experiment is to Propose to your Possibility Team to Hit Bottom together and experience the Nothingness.
Be sure to have tissues, towels, and buckets as tools for this journey. Dedicate an hour for this Experiment together. The instructions are to leave the Fantasy Worlds behind by identifying your Fantasy Worlds, and leave your Swamp behind by identifying your Swamp behaviors. Admit each detail to your Team so people see and hear you as you are.
This is NOT about beating yourself up, at all... not even one tiny bit.
See and bypass all your maniacal and depressive behaviors behind, and admitting that, actually, there is nothing.
Hang out there at the Bottom together for the whole meeting. You might get the sense that you do not actually know the other people in your Possibility Team. They are strangers when they are not doing their usual neurotic Survival Strategy show, trying to 'be' something.
Draw no conclusions.
It is weird, isn't it?
Then, for the next 7 days, see how much time you can spend alone and with others on the Bottom... without complaining or explaining about it at all... and also without exhalting yourself. It is what it is, without opinions, interpretations, or meaning. It is even meaningless that it is meaningless.
Several times during these 7 days at the Bottom, take an energetic snapshot of a scene, with you in the scene, at the Bottom. You are there without reason or cause. You are not on a mission. You are not serving a purpose. You are not even doing an Experiment. Hold these few scenes close to your heart. Consider that for no reason, these might be some of the best moments of your life.
At your next Possibility Team, share about your moments.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.09 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
RADICALLY RELY ON YOUR ARCHETYPAL RESOURCES FOR INTERACTING WITH THE UNIVERSE FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.10
Propose at your next Possibility Team meeting to study the Radical Reliance and Infinite Resources websites, reading the sections out loud to each other and questioning everything. Have each person write out their own personal Infinite Resources in their Beep! Book.
Break out into groups of 4, with 1 peson reading their Infinite Resources from their Beep! Book, and the other three people giving them exact Possibilities for Experiments to try during the next week where they could Radically Rely on their Infinite Resources in their life to make changes or to make new things happen. Spend 15 minutes creating Radical Reliance Experiments for each person. Make sure they write down what you say, not what they think you said. In other words, make sure they know exactly what to do to try the Radical Reliance Experiments you created for them.
Then for the next 7 days, do each of your Radical Reliance Experiments 3 different times. Make sure to write down notes in your Beep! Book about what you try and the outcomes you create. Read your notes to everyone at your next Possibility Team.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.10 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
ENTER THE ARCHAN DOMAIN OF RADICAL RELATING FOR 1 WEEK
Matrix Code RADREALI.11
Now that you have expanded from Verbal Reality into Experiential Reality, now that you can neutrally Observe Yourself, now that you know about the Eye of the Needle and the Path, now that you have become Radically Simplified, now that you have become enough of a Conscious Asshole to Say What You Want and what you do not want, now that you can Hit Bottom and stay there for no Reason, now that you can be Radically Honest and can Radically Rely on your Infinite Resources, you are ready to start Radically Relating.
Radical Relating is only one component of Archan Relating, which also includes Listening Skills and Speaking Skills, etc., but it is an important component.
To practice Radical Relating, Propose to your Possibility Team to divide into groups of 3, with one person being the Possibiliator who practices Radical Relating, one person sits across from them and is the Role Player, and the third person sits beside the Possibilitator and is their Coach, saying loudly, "Beep!" quickly followed by what didn't work (which is the Feedback) and what they could try next time to make more Radical Relating (which is the Coaching).
To begin, the Possibilitator asks the Role Player to shift identitly into being a particular person with whom the Possibilitator would like to Practice Radical Relating, or, the Possibilitator can ask the Role Player to simply be themselves. In either case, go for about 15 minutes per person, with lots of "Go! Beep! Shift! Go!" Rapid Learning. There are so many amazing dimensions of Possibility to explore through Radical Relating. It may be the most entertaining human activity in the world. It is so rewarding because, as soon as you Radically Relate, more Archetypal Love ('Yellow Stuff') flows into the world.
For the next 7 days after your Possibility Team, practice Radical Relating in your daily life with everyone you meet. Write down your own learnings in your Beep! Book and bring them to your next Possibility Team to support the others to expand their Radical Relating skills.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.11 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
TAKE RADICAL ACTION AS PART OF YOUR RADICAL RELATING WITH THE WORLD IN RADICAL REALITY
Matrix Code RADREALI.12
Propose at your next Possibility Team meeting to study the Radical Action StartOver.xyz website. Radical Action is action that does not serve you personally, but instead serves something greater than yourself. This does not mean serving your parents, a corporation, a country, or a religion. These are only gameworlds, human made, for human benefit. No, something 'greater than yourself 'would be Gaia (Gaia is not a gameworld. She is the living Being of planet Earth, created when the General Field of Consciousness intersects the physical matter of Earth.), or your Bright Principles, or E.C.C.O. (Earth Coincidence Control Center), or your Archetypal Lineage, etc.
Then meet in groups of 4 to make a list of at least 3 Radical Actions each person could take that would feed something greater than them at the same time that it feeds them. Such Radical Actions could range from attending a Town Hall meeting with the Mayor to propose creating a strong 'energy descent plan' for the town, or making a documentary film about where the town's trash actually goes, to choosing a stream or a forest or a mountain or a desert to defend from corporate greed trying to monetize nature for profit at the fastest possible rate to benefit the psychopathic billionaires.
Then, for the next 7 days, break up into teams of 2 people and perform these actions. Keep it in mind that long supply chains can be broken at any weak point, and that delays and breakdowns destabilize supply chains and end the profitability of wantonly chopping down forests and sending the wood to China for processing.
Remember the third Rule in Possibility Management: Don't get arrested.
After 7 days, report back to your Possibility Team about the Radical Actions you took, and the next Radical Actions you are inspired to take.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.12 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
FIND YOUR RADICAL FREEDOM QUOTIENT FOR YOUR AUTHENTIC ADULTHOOD INITIATORY PATH
Matrix Code RADREALI.13
Your later teen years were to prepare you for your Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes, but modern culture did not provide you that option. Instead, you probably stayed in school to 'get a degree so you could get a good job'.
"Ha! What a load of horseshit!"
You have been enslaved in a system training you to be a Zombie...
If you are not already free, how could be of any interest to you to 'take radical responsibility'?
This Experiment is to Propose to your Possibility Team to investigate each person's degree of Radical Freedom. Start by studying the Radical Freedom website together, reading the passages out loud and discussing the ideas. Then get into groups of 4 and spend 15 minutes focusing on one person at a time to assess - on a scale from 1 to 10 - each person's preparedness for Radical Reality. Write the numbers down in their Beep! Book.
Radical Freedom is only one of the conditions needed.
Add up the 10 scores for each person and you will have a number between 10 and 100, which equates to a number between 10% and 100% prepared. Nobody is 100% prepared for Radical Reality. If you arrive at that number, you have been deceived - probably by your Box and Gremlins - and you go back to start over at zero...
- The degree to which their Compass of Reality is calibrated.
- The degree to which they have become Unhookable.
- The degree to which they have exited Reactivity.
- The degree to which the have healed their Technopenuriaphobia.
- The degree to which they have Become Money and are delivering their Nonmaterial Value.
- The degree to which they have learned to Cavitate Space, Set Context, and Hold Space for Archiarchy in the world.
- The degree to which they can Inner Navigate their Feelings, Emotions, Egostates, Gremlin, and Hidden Competing Commitments.
- The degree to which they have left the ping-pong addiction between the pressure to stay in a Fantasy World, and the collapse of sliding into their Swamp. To what degree can they actually Hit Bottom and stay there?
- The degree to which their Survival Strategy is left in the past, and their Box is Optional.
- The degree to which they have achieved Radical Freedom.
After you make this 10 point assessment for each person in your Possibility Team, it will be painfully clear what each person's next steps could be. Use this Clarity to see if there might already be Teams of people working on taking the next steps together. Then divide up and for the next 7 days, radically support each other to succeed in taking at least the first next step. Report on your successes and learnings at your next Possibility Team meeting.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.13 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
THINK ABOUT TAKING RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR ENTERING RADICAL REALITY
Matrix Code RADREALI.14
Radical Reality may not be a pretty sight. In fact, it may be shockingly disgusting, embarrassing, madening, even scary. It may cause you tidal waves of grief to see what is really going on in the world, and who is causing it to be this way. There is so much unconscious and unconsciounable 'evil' being created in the world. Why? It is the best those people can do. They may not be aware of the consequences of organizing governments using hierarchical power structure. (The consequences are that the governments become top-heavy with psychopathic personaly disorders.)
This experiment is personal. It is not done at your Possibility Team.
Take a 2 hour walk, alone, either in the city or in the countryside or forest. This walk is about making a decision.
The decision is about where you will you plant your Point Of Origin.
Your Point Of Origin is where you are energetically connected to the Context of your life. It looks like a gigantic brown-colored carrot, sunk deep into your familiar Level of Responsibility.
Your familiar Level of Responsibility is the Level of Responsibility handed down to you by your parents, your uninspected culture, and your belief systems.
You automatically adopted this Level of Responsibility as part of your childhood Survival Strategy. Now, due to the Matrix you have built and the Practices you have adopted, you get a choice about this. You now get to Choose the Level of Responsibility you will be living in on the spectrum from None, Child Level, Adolescent Level, Adult Level, High Level, and Radical Responsibility.
None of these Levels is right or wrong. None of them are good or bad. But each Level has its consequences, and you cannot avoid the consequences of the Level of Responsibility you Choose to live in.
(Choosing is one of your 3 Powers as a Human Being. See if you can use that power consciously.)
During this Decision Walk, what you get to Choose about is taking Responsibility for the Level of Responsibility being taken in every Space you are in from now on for the rest of your life.
Your Choice recognizes that you support the Values of every Gameworld in which you participate.
Your Choice recognizes that if you are not consciously Holding Space for the Space you are in, then your Gremlin is in charge of your life, holding onto the secret Shadow Purpose of playing out the Victim role in a Low Drama, ready to turn it around in an instant to get Revenge.
Take these sentences with you on your Decision Walk.
Decide which Level of Responsibility you will live in. It is an Experiment.
No one can Choose this for you.
More interestingly, no one can stop you from Choosing this.
After you return from your Decision Walk, write on the inside of the front cover of your Beep! Book the date, the place where you are on Earth, and the Declaration: "I (your full passport name) Choose (which Level) Responsibility."
You do not need to tell anyone about your Choice. The evidence will be obvious. But you may need to learn how to implement the Practices of your Choice. Learn swiftly and with dilligence. Learn it well. The Universe and E.C.C.O. are watching you closely.
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.14 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
WELCOME THE ARCHETYPAL INFLUENCES OF E.C.C.O., YOUR BRIGHT PRINCIPLES, AND YOUR ARCHETYPAL LINEAGE IN YOUR LIFE - BEGIN YOUR QUEST
Matrix Code RADREALI.15
For aeons the Universe has been waiting for Human Beings to grow up enough to enter the Archetypal Domains. Adulthood Initiations have been banned from modern culture since its inception some 10,000 years ago at the dawn of civilization when the psychopaths took over the hierarchies and stopped them in order to avoid being detected. So many Potentials have been left dormant, un-fostered, un-liberated, even unseen. They wait without filters for whoever might find them and bring them to life. Fortunately, there is you, a foundling person, located on some piece of land on Earth, starting on your Adulthood Path. Yay!
This Experiment is to Propose to your Possibility Team to read through the Your Quest StartOver.xyz website out loud together and study the ideas and offerings. Then go around the Circle and reveal to the others what you think Your Quest might be. What have you always been up to? Where are you being drawn to explore and create? Who else is on your Team? Where might you be going together in terms of bringing new human potentials to life?
The world needs you now, perhaps more than ever before. It needs you vitally alive, empowered, out there on the Edge, exploring, doing your work, as wild it can be.
You are an Edgeworker. Your Quest happens just over the Edge at your feet. Will you go on Your Quest? It is a 'yes' or 'no' question.
What is the burning Quest-Ion at your Center, dragging you out of bed in the morning, throwing you into life with full enthusiasm and commitment? State your Quest-Ion to your Possibility Team.
However it seems to be formulated now, write it down in your Beep! Book, and announce it to the world in whatever ways you can: articles, websites, videos, WorkTalks.
The point is that you figure out where you are going first, before you find out who you are going there with. Your Quest awaits you!
After completing this experiment, please enter Matrix Code RADREALI.15 in your free StartOver.xyz account at login.startover.xyz. This Experiment is worth 7 Matrix Points.
NOTE: This website is a Bubble in the Bubble Map of the free-to-play massively-multiplayeronline-and-offline thoughtware-upgrade matrix-building personal-transformation real-life adventure-game called StartOver.xyz. It is a doorway to experiments that upgrade your thoughtware so you can relocate yourpoint of origin and create more possibility. Your knowledge is what youthink about. Your thoughtware is what you useto think with. When you change your thoughtware,you go through a liquid state as your mind reorganizes itself. Liquid states can bring uptransformational feelings and emotions. By upgrading your thoughtware you build matrix to hold more consciousness and leave behind a low drama life of reactivity. No one can upgrade yourthoughtware for you. More interestingly, no one can stop you from upgrading your thoughtware. Our theory is that when we collectively build 1,000,000 new Matrix Points wewill change the morphogenetic field of the human race for the better. Please choose responsibly to read this website. Reading thiswhole website is worth 1 Matrix Point. Doing any of the experiments earns you additional Matrix Points. Please use Matrix Code RADREALI.00 to log yourMatrix Point for reading this website on StartOver.xyz. Thank you for playing full out!


















