Effective and responsible team decisions can be made by consulting the wisdom of what you disagree about.
Here is how...
Resistance Decision Making
using the intelligence of what your people do not want
Insistance Decision Making
using the intelligence of what your people refuse to do without
Resistance Decision Making Steps
1PREPARE YOURSELVES
In your team (eg. Project Team, family or partnership) notice the Necessity for something. Sense if you have fear about going ahead without accessing the Team’s intelligence.
2MAKE A PROPOSAL
Make sure everying has their Center, Grounding Cord, Bubble, and Sword Of Clarity in First Position. Use your Archetypal Resources (such as Speaking From The Unknown) to offer a possible Proposal that meets the Necessity.
3SPEAK WITH YOUR REAL VOICE
Use your Real Voice to land your Proposal in the Space giving as much detail as you have clarified so far.
4CALL FOR RESISTANCE
Then ask your team, “At the count of three, please show your Resistance to this Proposal. One. Two. Three.”
5COUNT THE RESISTANCE
Each teammate holds up both hands. The number of fingers raised is their degree of resistance from 0 to 10. Two fists, which is to say zero fingers up, means, “I have zero resistance to your proposal, it’s perfect, GO!” Ten fingers up (thumbs included) means, “I have massive resistance to your proposal! BEEP!”
6CHECK REACTIVITY WITH PURPLE CARD
If there are lots of fingers (and thumbs), YAY! Group intelligence is on its way. Also, watch out for any Reactivity indicating the need for an Emotional Healing Process (EHP). Watch out for Gremlins. Have your Sword of Clarity at the ready. If there is Reactivity, you may need to raise your Purple Card so the Space does not get derailed or side-tracked.
7CALL THE INTELLIGENCE OF RESISTANCE
Whoever has the most fingers up goes first to speak their resistance. “I feel scared/angry/sad because…” Listen for Emotions vs. Feelings.
The person with Resistance or any other teammate may at any time make a new Proposal, with the intelligence of the resistance woven in, and ask again, “At the count of three, please show your Resistance to this Proposal. One. Two. Three."
8DOCUMENT THE PROCESS
The Documenter takes notes of how the proposal evolves, empowered by group intelligence.
9GO FOR THE EXPERIMENT
When the proposal is deemed, 'safe enough for now, good enough to try', even if a few fingers remain up, start to implement the Proposal as an Experiment. In the context of Radical Responsibility anyone can say, “I have a new Proposal!”
10NAVIGATE WITH NEW PROPOSALS
At any time any teammate can Propose for the Team to come together for the purpose of Feedback and Coaching, new Proposals, or other Torus Technology processes deemed relevant.
11CELEBRATE THE TEAM
Notice the ecstasy called Zwasheen - the ecstasy of collaboration happening.
Celebrate it!
Resistance Decision Making Experiments
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