This difference between what you notice that you notice, and what you notice that other people do not notice, may not, at first, be very large.

On the other hand, the very fact that you are noticing that you notice things that other people are not noticing can be devastatingly disillusioning. The differences in noticing between you and someone else may be your first irrefutable evidence that you are indeed different from other people... or that they are different from you... depending upon if you are self-referenced or other-referenced.

'Self-Referenced' means that your framework for interacting with reality is your own Authority (with a capital 'A', implying that your Authority is inalienable. It came with you being born.)

'Other-Referenced' means that your framework for interacting with reality is other people's authority (with no capital 'a', implying that their 'authority' is circumstantially granted to them by their position in some kind of organizational hierarchy, or from the certificate hanging on their wall).

After noticing that you can notice differences between human beings so startling as that you notice things that they do not notice, there are some different things you can do with this. The question being, are you doing these things consciously for the benefit of all beings everywhere, or are you doing these things neurotically for the benefit of the Gremlin food you can create?

Neurotic Self-Serving Gremlin Things:

1. Use the experience that you notice something that someone else does not to insult their intelligence, run circles around them, abuse them, 
2. Adopt and enforce the status position that you are superior to them, that they are a stupid brute not to notice what you notice.
3. Secretly arrange things so that your inside knowledge gives you an advantage in a certain situation so that you can 'win' and the others can 'lose'.

1. Use the experience that you notice something that someone else does not to create clarity and possibilities for the other person so that by sharing your Treasure, the Treasure itself grows, and more Winning is Happening.
2. Create, hold, and Navigate 3 Phase Healing or Transformational Processes or Initiations for others to they can move along their Path.
3. Offer coaching, possibility making, or negotiation training or services for others or for your team.
4. Provide feedback and coaching about how to notice more than what a person or organization is currently noticing, such as the possibility of entering new market space.
5. Create Legends about how you became able to notice or distinguish things that other people cannot notice or distinguish, and use the effects of your Legends to guide people who are attracted into optimizing new potentials for themselves, in terms of their relationships, their health, their life plans.

1. Worries.
2. Resentments.
3. Physical pain or discomfort, even minor itches or having your hair out of place.
4. Withholding communications; not saying what needs to be said.
5. Keeping secrets.
6. Withholding anger, fear or sadness.
7. Repressing joy.
8. Getting hooked and emotionally overreacting.
9. Taking sides in a conflict.
10. Taking a position about anything, e.g., politics, sports, art, religion, science.
11. Having opinions.
12. Sustaining beliefs.
13. Avoiding unpleasant tasks.
14. Having internal mental conversations with others.
15. Having other people’s energy in your personal space.
16. Power struggles with authority figures.
17. Making up justifications for what you did or what you want to do.
18. Blaming others.
19. Trying to be right.
20. Trying to make other people wrong.
21. Trying to be perfect.
22. Complaining to anyone about anything.
23. Trying to get other people’s attention.
24. Trying to remember what you forgot.
25. Trying to find or reclaim what you have lost.
26. Trying to look good.
27. Trying to look better than other people.
28. Trying to be acceptable to others.
29. Trying to make other people jealous.
30. Trying to look normal.
31. Trying to be superior.
32. Strategizing ways to get revenge.
33. Being late, even just a few minutes.
34. Breaking your promises.
35. Not answering the exact question that was asked.
36. Saying more than is necessary.
37. Driving faster than the speed limit.
38. Arguing with anybody about anything.
39. Making messes for others to clean up.
40. Living in unseen messes, e.g. packed attics, unwashed dishes, unpaid bills.
41. Unfinished business, uncompleted projects.
42. Broken agreements, either by you or by others.
43. Broken objects that need to be fixed.
44. Too many possessions, having more than you need.
45. Borrowing money or things.
46. Loaning money or things.
47. Flirting, i.e., exchanging sexual energy casually with friends or strangers, over the telephone or over the Internet.
48. Protecting other people from feeling hurt; walking on eggshells.
49. Being adaptive.
50. Giving your center away.
51. Being a source of psychic violence.
52. Making lists of things to do.
53. Disorganization, confusion, pointless chaos.
54. Listening to other people complaining.
55. Overeating; over drinking.
56. Junk food.
57. Drugs, prescribed or not.
58. Trying to stay in fashion.
59. Indulgence, e.g., fantasy worlds, bingeing, over shopping.
60. Mass media: television, radio, newspaper, magazines, billboards, posters, etc.
61. Overindulging in desire for objects or experiences, e.g. sexual fantasies.
62. Addictions, e.g., to adrenaline, to problems, to being perfect, or to speed.
63. Gossiping or being around gossip.
64. Low Drama.
65. Triangulating in communications, telling one person what you should be telling another person.
66. Not enough boundaries with your children.
67. Not enough boundaries with your parents.
68. Not enough boundaries with your own Gremlin.
69. Excessive orgasms or orgiastic behavior.
70. Making boundaries at the castle gate instead of at the frontier.
71. Avoiding contact or intimacy with your mate, shunning.
72. Making other plans, having a back door.
73. Leading a double life.
74. Not expressing what is really going on with you.
75. Conflicts with your neighbors, colleagues, boss, employees.
76. Violence, cathartic expression of emotions, horror films or novels.
77. Doing things that you do not consciously take responsibility for choosing to do.
78. Doing things you do not want to do.
79. Always just doing things, and so on.