Human beings are incredibly inventive when it comes to survival.

We have implemented millions of different Survival Strategies.

This website focuses on only one:

The Handsome Holy Tribal Man (or Woman).

This Survival Strategy is neither good nor bad, neither right nor wrong, yet there are serious consequences if you adopt it.

For one thing, it runs on Capitalist Patriarchal Empire thoughtware.

Let's check this out together, shall we?

It is possible to escape from the Handsome Holy Tribal Man (or Woman) Survival Strategy.

Possible... but NOT easy. NOT comfortable. NOT pain free.

But neither is it pain free or comfortable to escape from ANY of the other Survival Strategy. Did you ever compassionately watch a tiny chick hatch its way out of its eggshell? Did you ever sit and commiserate with a butterfly fighting to escape from its chrysalis? You should do it. Sit there for a few hours and be with these animals as they struggle to shift from one paradigm to another. It is exactly what you have been trying to hide from all along.

Transformation is a life AND death struggle. You long for one part to die in the same moment as you long for another part to wake up and come alive.

To escape from the Handsome Holy Tribal Man (or Woman) Survival Strategy, you have no other options but to engage in the archetypal Death and Resurrection Show. (where the Resurrection part is not guaranteed...) The Survival Strategy will not let you go until it dies, until its imperatives do not matter to you anymore. This is how you can tell it is dead. Your adulthood initiation processes could necessarily center around Decontaminating your Adult Egostate from your Child Egostate, or Parent Egostate, or Gremlin Egostate, or Demon Egostate, or some combination of the above.

Transformation is not a method. If steps are followed, then whatever you are calling 'transformation' never leaps into the void and gets free of the gravitational pull towards 'normal'. The Mystery weaves Transformation, not your mind.

Each individual's processes are as unique as they are, and we are ALL unique. Probably somewhere along the line, if you are to do this for real, if you are to succeed (both 'ifs' are VERY BIG 'ifs'...), then you may encounter some or all of the following (plus a large variety of auxiliary Authentic Adulthood Initiatory and Healing Process) and will rely on amazing coincidences and a good amount of luck...

• Phoenix yourself. Keep Pulling Your Own Rug Out in public in surprisingly vulnerable ways.
• Keep doing Emotional Healing Processes  (EHP) and tell people when you are in the Liquid State. Having three Liquid States before breakfast makes for the beginning of a very fine day.
• Keep documenting in your Beep! Book what you discover so that you can give it away to more people clearly and powerfully in Articles, Film Scripts, Websites, WorkTalks, Workshops, Theater Pieces, Trainings, and Books.
• Do NOT open an account to receive donations through Patreon or any other such platform. Simply refuse to do it. Your are not a victim to be rescued by 'those who want to support the starving artists'. Causing valuable evolutions, healings, and transformations is a fulltime and well-rewarded Archan occupation. Close your Patreon account if you have opened one already.
• Clearly, repeatedly, and publicly assign everything you generate to be Copyleft, protected by a Creative Commons Attribute and Share-Alike International 4.0 License. This is the kind of Treasure that grows by giving it away.
• Whatever you create is dedicated to feeding the Creative Commons. This is how you add transformational catalytic elements to the Human Morphogenetic Field. This is how you upgrade Human Thoughtware.
• Refuse to establish 'Members Only' content. Give everything away for free to everyone, especially your 'best' stuff. You think it came from you? Think again. Your contributions all come from the Infinite Resources behind you that you have been fortunate enough to jack into. Your stuff is NOT yours. It never was yours. Yes, you must pay Attention and Stay Awake and Work to Cavitate and be the Space through which your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage can do their work in the world. But you get 'paid' in the process: the work is ecstatic, and you are rich in coincidences (unusually lucky), and something like 10% of the energy coming through you goes to charge-up your Deep Batteries so you can Navigate Transformational Spaces.
• Stay in the mud. The evolution of consciousness is, has been, and will always be radical transformational guerilla street theater. You must stay in the street to do it. Stay in the mud. Refuse to go into the palace. Does Merlin sit in the palace? No. He just bows out and goes to do the next job on his bench. 
• Do not look for anyone else to understand what you are going through. This is your own work. You are designed for this. You are designed to escape from your Survival Strategy and grow up. You are designed to be a Free And Natural Adult collaboratively interacting with extraordinary and Archetypal Domains. You have not even begun...
• Get in a Team (such as a 3Cell, a Possibility Team, the Emotional Healing Process Collaboration Telegram Group, a Rage Club, a Fear Club, etc.) with others who are on this journey, and who are fierce enough to confront your oh-so-clever-and-fakely-powerful Gremlin with clear feedback and challenging possibilities.
• You are a genius. Stop trying to use any of your genius tricks to make things easier for you. There are no shortcuts on the Path. You must pay full price. There are many paths up the mountain, but there is no mountain. It is impossible to look good, so forget about trying to look good. Transformation happens through looking bad. This is the Learning Team, not the 'Looking Good' Team. You used your tricks to slide through school without even trying. This is not school. There are no right answers anymore. Put your tricks back in your bag and stay simple, connected, and Present. Be on the Team even with the Blue Brains, or Green Brains. 
• We are all in this sinking ego boat together. Realize that you are in a boat that can sink if we do not all row together. If they do not make it, then none of us makes it. I succeed through you succeeding. I heal through you healing. This is a Winning Happening game.
• Notice the lack of Conscious Anger in the people around you. They do not have enough Rage to take Radical Action, to make a different Decision, to be a Person Of Agency. People are sleeping Zombies, dedicating their life energy to participating in gameworlds without identifying the values of those gameworlds. Instead of being an Experimenter who Cavitates and Inhabits new culture space, they are obeying the rule of law of western civilization and exterminating life on Earth at the fastest possible rate. They cannot say, "Yes," or, "No," or, "Stop!" or, "Go!" They do not have Integrity. They do not respect their own Word. They are terrified of Speaking Out and being visible by trying something different. How can you get enough Rage back in your 5 Bodies to actually live in the world instead of just trying to manage to survive?
• Learn to Cavitate, Hold, and Navigate circular or toroidal collaborative-creation space. 
• Absolutely refuse to allow anyone to give you their Center. Each time you Notice this happening, or better yet, each time you Notice this is about to happen, make a clear Boundary. Say, "Stop It! I do not want your Center." 
• It is NOT other people's job to police you to not do all the subtle Handsome Holy Tribal Man (or Woman) behaviors. By the time they catch you doing it again (...and again) it is far too late for you to choose something else. Catching yourself is your job. You do this through a strong Practice of neutral Self Observation, documenting what you find in your Beep! Book, and expediting your next Experiment. 
• If you even start thinking about ending your Survival Strategy career as a Handsome Holy Tribal Man (or Woman), your circle of friends will radically change. Those who do not want to go on their own evolutionary journey will silently slip away and migrate to the fan club of another (perhaps even more popular) Handsome Holy Tribal Man (or Woman). The hint is to let them go gracefully. Even if they are angry with you for changing, for abandoning them, for causing them to have to go find someone else on whom to Project their mommy or daddy, on whom to have Expectations, even if they Resent you and somehow plot Revenge against you, keep slowly spinning your Energetic Body to let the barbs go past you, and keep loving them. You can Radically Rely on the Archetypal Forces which you are becoming friends with.
• Get rid of all the mirrors in your house. Stay mirror-free for a year or more. Don't worry if when you accidentally see your reflection you do not recognize what you see. Yes, you may feel afraid about that. If you do, ask yourself if have you ever felt that fear before. If you have, then your fear is not a feeling. Your fear is an emotion. Emotional Fear is a Doorway to your next Emotional Healing Process (EHP). Write your fear down in the back pages of your Beep! Book (so you can easily find them again) and create the opportunity as soon as possible to do your Emotional Healing Process. 
• You have certain qualities that are valuable for Being An Authentic Adulthood Initiator, or Being A Transformational Space Navigator. Those qualities have been hijacked by your Gremlin to augment your Handsome Holy Tribal Man (or Woman) Survival Strategy... as if all Gaia designed for you was mere survival. Your commitment to remaining in scarcity, competition, unconscious fear, and survival cuts you off from your birthright: the Path of Adulthood. Your qualities can be kidnapped away from your Gremlin and repurposed, but this work is the equivalent of committing to a life-long 12 Step addiction-recovery program that includes: Dramaholics Anonymous, Gremlin Transformation, Gremlin Violence, Gremlin Self Cannibalism, Decontaminating your Adult Egostate from the Child Egostate, Parent Egostate, Gremlin Egostate, and Demon Egostate, and Possibilitator Training. All this stands between where you are now, and your first step into Adulthood. You don't even know how to Inner Navigate your Conscious Feelings for Radical Relating in 5 Body Intimacy Journeys into the Archetypal Domains as part of Whole Permaculture.
• The people in your Circle are NOT your 'clientele' whom you milk for all you can get. Your Circle are the people you love to Journey with on the Path. You are not the center of their Journey. They are. You are on your Journey. They are on their Journey. For a while now, you get to Journey together. It is an honor for both of you to have this opportunity.
• When anyone in your Circle needs something that no one else in the Circle can provide for them, you all work together to send them to someone else in another Circle who can give them what they need right now. In this way you are weaving Critical Connections in the Global Transformational Village, connecting Circle to Circle, and exchanging Nonmaterial Value. By exchanging Nonmaterial Value over Critical Connections between Communities Of Practice you generate a Field Of Influence for the emergence of Next Culture. Next Culture is Archiarchy, the regenerative Nonmaterial-Value Adulthood-Initiation-centered cultures emerging around the world now that Matriarchy and Patriarchy have run their course. Then your Circle earns its place in the global Team of Evolutionary Gameworlds. 
• Your personal objective is to Replace Yourself. Whatever quality of Space you are already able to Cavitate, Hold, and Navigate, you keep opening Doorways for others to take over your job. This way your Gremlin is not occupied with 'defending your position' in some imagined 'hierarchy' because: there is no hierarchy. This is a Torus serving you all as a 'spaceship', being piloted by a skilled Team for exploring new Spaces together, to bring the Treasures you find back to your people. Each new Space is not a 'means to an end' but rather a further dimension of Discovery. 
• You can Replace Yourself in two ways: 1. Send people from your Circle to Spaceholders at other Circles who are sourcing what that person needs now. 2. Empower others in your own Circle to take over and deliver the valuable contributions you are making. Successfully replacing yourself includes the tradition that whoever replaces you is already training others to replace themselves, so that Replacing Yourself is a central characteristic of your culture. Then your Evolutionary gameworld proceeds to fly.
• Because you now carry so little Baggage, it is possible for E.C.C.O., your Bright Principles, and your Archetypal Lineage to easily grab you unexpectedly by the scruff of your neck, lift you straight up out of whatever current life you have, and drop you into a different life where you would be best used next. This life is not yours, of course, but you have definitely transcended mere survival by serving something greater than yourself. Keep breathing while the bottom falls out from under your feet. You have now become one of the three Handsome Holy Tribal Men (or Women) falling into a bottomless pit... There is nothing cool about this.