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X on the Map
It is shocking to even start a conversation about the 3 Domains of Love.
There is so much assumption about Love.Assumptions such as...
'Love is a feeling.'
'I have to Love myself, before I Love others.''It is either Love or Fear.'
It is fascinating that the human mind can believe in concepts, constructs, fantasy worlds, or relate to the world based on assumptions that do not relate to reality.
When you relate to the world through unchecked assumptions, constructs or fantasy worlds, you do not have access to reality to create New Results. You can be screaming, kicking, even going through healing processes, experimenting, leveraging, negotiating intimacy, and the results remain that nothing changes because you do not have a close grip on what is, in this case, Love or more accurately the 3 Domains of Love.
A meta-conversation about Love starts outside of Modern Culture.
Modern Culture does not distinguish about Love. It knows only Ordinary Love, but cannot distinguish it like a fish cannot distinguish water.
A meta-conversation about the 3 Domains of Love: Ordinary, Extraordinary and Archetypal occurs from the cavitated space of Archiarchal Culture. Here is one of the edges of Archiarchy.
'X' on the Map
The 3 Domains of Love is a Map. It maps the experiential distinction at work when navigating the territory of Love.
A Map is useful in order to find your 'X': in which domain of Love you just navigated yourself and your partner/Teammates/children/gameworld. Without an accurate 'X' on the Map, you are lost. You might know where your Treasure is (what you want), but if you do not have a crystal clear experience of where you are, how do you expect to get from where you are to where you want to be? Where is your blue dot?
A Hobby
Navigating to the Extraordinary or Archetypal Domains of Love is a hobby.
Nothing in this website says, "This is bad and you should not want it. This is good and you should strive for it". Good/Bad - Right/Wrong is a Shadow Principle that has been used, entre autre, by the Catholic Church to manipulate and control masses of Zombies who lack their Center, their Authority, and their Infinite Resources. If at any point, you enter the Good/Bad, Right/Wrong, Failure/Success Swamp it may be a sign that your Adult Egostate is Contaminated with your Parent Egostate ('you should be able to do this', 'you must do this from now on'), or by your Child Egostate ('I will never make it', 'This is too hard', 'I am alone in this') or your Gremlin Egostate ('I am better than them' or 'I suck, I am worth nothing'). If this is the case, get yourself into a Gremlin Transformation Training and to then follow the Decontamination Path.It becomes obvious that some of the pre-requisite to learn to how to navigate the 3 Domains of Love starts by Becoming Centered, Reclaiming Your Authority and jacking-into your Infinity Resources.
A Team of edgeworkers Clarity and Experiments to learn skills and tools to learn how to navigate from Ordinary Love to Extraordinary Love to Archetypal Love. If you are reading this website, it is possible that it is your hobby to learn how to navigate between the Domains of Love with Clarity, Consciousness, Efficacy and Elegance. It might even your hobby to train other people to learn how.
Spaceship & Navigation
Study Group - Radiant Joy Brilliant Love/ Building Love That Lasts
The Study Group has the purpose to discover the Possibility to shift from Ordinary to Extraordinary Relating and then from Extraordinary to Archetypal Relating.
Part 1 was 70 weeks long, we travelled mostly through the Ordinary Relating section.
Part 2 start where we left off, on September 19, 2022.
More info about joining the Study Group is here: https://possibilitymanagement.org/calendar/JEL5E7/2022-09-19/Ordinary Love
Does he love me? Does she love me? Nobody loves me!
Relationship As a Thing
Patriarchal Relationship
Patriarchal relating belongs to the Ordinary Domain of Love. It is dead-childish-Gremlin contaminated Love.
The man says: "I want the freedom to do whatever I want. And when I want, I want my partner to be there for me. She cannot have an opinion about what I want, or about what I do with my time. It is my time after all. I do what I want to do (even if that includes flirting, exchanging sexual energy, having sex with other people). I have needs! I hate when she tries to control me."The woman says: "I want control. I want my partner to only be with me, only have sex with me, only love me. I hate him when he lies, because I know he lies. He flirts with other woman, I know it."
These are both ordinary love offers from uninitiated adolescent 'man' and 'woman' whose only model are their parents, their friends' parents and television.Gremlin Feeding Frenzy As Intimacy
Some people come together for the sole purpose to ensure that their Gremlin have an ongoing source of tasty food: their partner.
It is almost always the case that both partners in the relationship have the same purpose of feeding their Gremlin on each other through:
* make assumptions, expectations about your partner and holding on to resentment when they did not fulfill your expectation,
* belittling your partner in public: correcting them or interrupting them when they are 'wrong'
* creating intrigue in your relationship by involving other people in your space of relating,
* being adaptive to your partner's needs that you are not even there to relate to and hate them for not taking care of you the way you 'take care' of them* thinking that Low Drama is intimacy, being a Dramaholic
* thinking that Gremlin Violence is intimacy
* thinking that being betrayed and blaming your partner for their betrayal is intimacy
* thinking that you know your partner better than they know themselves, direspecting their choice, or making choices for them
* pig making
* slave making
* thinking that ensmeshment and co-dependency is intimacy (just like in the movies, eh?)* and the other 122 ways of creating Ordinary Relationship
Gremlin feeding frenzy in relating is so 'alive' to the Box and Gremlin. It is so real and true. "We fight because we love each other."
Fight-and-Fuck relationship are a typical example of Gremlin feeding frenzy relating strategy.
Resources for Creating Ordinary Relationship
EXTRAORDINARY LOVE
Extraordinary Love
You Are Love / You Are Loveable
There is so many Emotional Healing Processes
What Is Your Proposal?
Negotiating The Context of Your Relating
Resource for Extraordinary Love
ARCHETYPAL LOVE
Archetypal Love
Resources for Archetypal Love
Source Archetypal Love in your everyday life
Experiments
Shift From Ordinary to Extraordinary to Archetypal
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