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Excuses
The inside of your Box is lined with your usual Excuses. Your life is shaped by the set of Excuses you use to justify your behaviors, mistakes, lack of awareness, and inactions. By studying your Excuses you could gain options where before you believed there were none. No one can do this for you. More interestingly, no one can stop you from doing this.
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THE ORDINARY IS PERVASIVE.
'How are you?'
'How are you?' is one of the most innocently dangerous question there is because it is so ordinary. The automatic behavior is to let our sword down and offer ordinary-sleeping-zombie banter in exchange for safety.

I usually do not answer when someone asks me 'how are you?', except if I am doing a piece of conscious theater. I keep my sword out and ask them what do they really want to know? What kind of conversation do they want to have with me? What outcome are they looking for? 99% of people have no idea, which tells me that their gesture was unconscious and ordinary, coming out of their Box. I refuse to have such conversations with a human being. I often ask them to come back to me when they have a more interesting offer for intimacy.
Extraordinary Possibilities
Having a Meta-Conversation: I am interested in a having a different conversation with you than an ordinary one by answering your question. Would you be willing to do that with me?
Making a Proposal: I propose that you ask me a different question to which I don't know the answer and you don't know the answer too. Would you try that with me?
Being Radically Honest: Do you have 45minutes? This is how long I need to tell you how I am really.
Being An Experimenter: My current experiment is to not use the word 'I' for the next 3 days. You give me an extraordinary challenge by asking me this question. I thank you.
Transformational Listening: I hear that you want to get to know me better. So few people nowadays have a true interest in discovering the mystery that we are as human beings. Oh I am so glad that I have found a journeyer to go with me on this journey. Do you want to grab coffee while we go on the journey?
THE EXTRAORDINARY IS POSSIBLE.

DISTINCTIONS
Extraordinary spaces, extraordinary opportunity, extraordinary excitement, extraordinary intimacy, extraordinary experiences, extraordinary aliveness, extraordinary connections, extraordinary presence, extraordinary ideas...

Is your life ordinary or extraordinary?

Who do you think is making it that way?

If you think it is 'them', you are wrong.
If you think it is your circumstances, you are wrong.

Something very close to you is limiting your life to the ordinary domains, blocking you from extraordinary and archetypal domains.

It is you.

There are many magical consequences of developing your ability to go extraordinary.

This website is a roadmap to off-road explorations.
Excuses Experiments

YOUR EPICENTER OF ORDINARY PLACES
Matrix Code ORDINARY.01
Ordinary is a story that you have glued onto certain aspects of the physical world and not others. Find the epicenter of ordinariness in terms of physical locations for you, it could be your car, your office, your lounge, the library...
Go there with some spare time (ie, if work is your epicenter of ordinary, arrange to be there after hours or at lunch time)
Pick up the phone and call your contacts one at a time until someone answers and is available to listen to you for 10 minutes. Then click your fingers and transform the space into an extraordinary one. Set a timer and take at least 10 minutes to describe in exquisite detail the hidden beauty and magic of this extraordinary space.
After completing this experiment, please register Matrix Code ORDINARY.01 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
YOUR EPICENTRE OF ORDINARY RELATING
Matrix Code ORDINARY.02
Ordinary is a story that you have glued onto certain relating spaces and not others. Find the Epicentre of ordinariness amongst your relationships, it could be your brother, your neighbour, the mechanic, the butcher or a workmate.
For the purposes of the experiment, it will work better if it was someone that you saw at least once per week on average - the more often you see them the better. Choose a different person per week for 4 weeks. At the start of each week, click your fingers and declare them extraordinary. Engage with them as if they were the most fascinating, scintillatingly interesting human creature you have ever met. Be curious, be awake to their uniqueness, delight in their ways of being.
Share your research with your team!
After completing this experiment, please register Matrix Code ORDINARY.02 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
AN ORDINARY THING
Matrix Code ORDINARY.03
Take a thing that you have decided is ordinary. Click your fingers and declare it extraordinary. Then enter a space of pure experiential wonder, discover this thing for the first time with all 5 bodies and then write a song or a poem or an article about this encounter and share it with the world..
After completing this experiment, please register Matrix Code ORDINARY.03 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Points.
BECOME A SOURCE OF THE EXTRAORDINARY IN THE WORLD
Matrix Code ORDINARY.04
You will have met extraordinary people, read extraordinary books, watched extraordinary movies. Guess what!? It is payback time! Become a doorway for the extraordinary to enter the world - how else will your people come into contact with it? Feel your feelings, check your purpose, be in your bodies, heal what comes up and turn your life into an extraordinary rampage!
Matrix Code ORDINARY.05
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NOTE: This website is a Bubble in the Bubble Map of the free-to-play, massively-multiplayer, online-and-offline, thoughtware-upgrade, matrix-building, personal-transformation, adventure-game called StartOver.xyz. It is a doorway to experiments that upgrade your thoughtware so you can create more possibility. Your knowledge is what you think about. Your thoughtware is what you use to think with. When you change your thoughtware, you go through a liquid state as your mind reorganizes itself. Liquid states can bring up transformational feelings and emotions. By upgrading your thoughtware you build matrix to hold more consciousness and leave behind a life of reactivity. No one can upgrade your thoughtware for you. No one can stop you from upgrading your thoughtware. Our theory is that when we collectively build 1,000,000 new Matrix Points we will change the morphogenetic field of the human race for the better. Please choose responsibly to read this website. Reading this whole website is worth 1 Matrix Point. Doing any of the experiments earns you additional Matrix Points. Please use Matrix Code ORDINARY.00 to log your Matrix Point for reading this website on StartOver.xyz. Thank you for playing full out!

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