Debaptize Yourself
You might feel scared, angry and offended. People do not have your same beliefs, but you are stuck. Your life does not feel like your own. Nothing you try to create actually works. Your are not really present to yourself and to your potential. You feel more connected to the Beliefs of your Box than to your friends. What is going on?
In recent Possibility Management and Possibility Coaching research, we have discovered that many people think they are Baptized. Imagining that you are Baptized is a Survival Strategy. Starting at 18 years of age you can engage with a Possibility Coach and go through the Debaptize Yourself Process.
Staying Baptized
Showing up to Life smaller than you actually are is a Survival Strategy.
It is likely you were terrorized as a child, by the uninitiated “adults” in your life who were not in radical responsibility, and were not connected to their own feelings and aliveness.
It is possible you were terrorized before you were even born.
A woman I recently held space for recalled a time when a physical blow to her mother’s belly impacted her tiny sensitive body still inside the womb. She reported that she never even cried as a baby, and that her mother told this as a story of what a good baby she was. In a held space, she let her heart break for this, that she was already blocking herself from crying at such a young age, in order to remain as invisible as possible, and not be a problem for her mother, who made it clear her daughter was not the kind of daughter she wanted.
The terror can range from physical and sexual abuse, to verbal abuse, to a parent or careTAKER not being present or meeting your essential needs of Love, consistency, emotional support, opportunities for exploration and adventure, or being valued.
To put it simply, your Being was not celebrated, held, or given space to unfold. And in many cases, was actually berated and degraded.
Maybe they constantly told you to be quiet, to go unnoticed, and from there you interpreted I am invisible and things are better that way. Or perhaps there was so much pressure for you to act good, be like them, to make them proud, to not disappoint. They may not have even said much of anything to you in words, it could have been transmitted energetically and emotionally, and you began to tip-toe around or scan for mood swings. Maybe you never touched grass or trees, confined to an apartment, raised by concrete and the intensity of a city. However it went for you, as a child you were relying on these faux adults for your survival completely, and it makes total sense that you adapted, assimilated and solidified into a pleaser, an appeaser, or even totally silent and unable to say, or for that matter sense, what you want. To do. To say. To feel.
It isn’t just parents who terrorize through unconscious words and actions and expectations, it also happens in school from the moment you are forced to sit in a small desk for 75 percent of the day. A day, full of possibility, to explore and adventure in forests and streams, minimized to most hours in a concrete prison learning false histories, and skills that only help you succeed in modern culture. I feel sad knowing that small sensitive human beings on the verge of discovering Life come into a system of rules, dos and don’t,and predominantly mental and physical body standards. Maybe you were great at school, celebrated for good grades, for raising your hand first, for figuring out how to be exactly what they wanted you to be to succeed. It is likely if you went to school, your life force energy was used to be liked, accepted, and get the marks that represent your value. Remember the red pen circling all your mistakes. Remember the letters written on the top of exams. It is likely that teachers talked to you in ways that were undignified, and that you were treated like another cog in the wheel.
Later, you may have continued to “hire” people to abuse you, to tell you weren’t worthy of taking up space. Partners who you shrunk next to, who you could not share your inner life with. Bosses whose concern was only how fast you could pump out documents to get him paid.
These people did not celebrate your Being unfolding, your questions, what lit you up, or what you naturally moved towards exploring. There was no relating, no Listening. Instead, you became things that you are not, took on ideas and perspectives that are not yours.
Remaining in terror is likely cutting you off from possibility, relationships and aliveness.
Nobody can deterrorize yourself for you, and nobody can stop you from deterrorizing yourself.
Start by connecting consciously to your four feelings, Anger, Sadness, Fear & Joy, and finding your x on the map. Notice how you make yourself invisible, when actually, you have so much to say. So much creation that wants to come through you. What is blocking you? What are you defending? What are you fighting? When you can distinguish between a feeling that has information for your life, and an emotion, a feeling wave that originates in the past and seems to linger or keep coming back, you may take the next step into an Emotional Healing Process.
You can get your authority back, and be dignified, with more access to your powers to choose, declare, and ask questions. You can become an experimenter in your life. You can decide to Deterrorize Yourself in a held space.
Debaptize Yourself
A Possibility Coaching Emotional Healing Process for Living.
Depaptizing yourself is the act of reclaiming your Authority from a ritual you did not consciously choose.
DEBAPTIZE YOURSELF PROCESS
Debaptize Yourself is a memectomy / authority reclamation / identity self-surgery process.
- Not 'anti-Christian'.
- Not revenge.
- Not rebellion against parents.
- Not a new belief system.
It is a process for removing an externally installed identity-hook from your energetic, emotional, mental, and archetypal bodies.
The core sentence might be:
Depaptizing yourself is the act of reclaiming your authority from a ritual you did not consciously choose.
DEBAPTIZE YOURSELF PROCEDURE
1. Clarify the purpose before entering the water
The participant says, preferably out loud:
“I am not here to attack any religion, any person, or any ancestor.
I am here to reclaim my authority from any ritual, vow, story, fear, guilt, shame, obedience structure, or identity that was installed in me without my conscious adult consent.”This prevents the Gremlin from turning the process into hatred or superiority.
2. Identify what was installed
The Spaceholder asks: “What did baptism install in your system?”
Possible answers:
- “I belong to the church.”
- “I am born sinful.”
- “I need saving.”
- “My body is suspicious.”
- “My sexuality is dangerous.”
- “My direct knowing is not trustworthy.”
- “God / priest / father / institution has authority over me.”
- "I must obey to be loved.”
- “I am marked by someone else’s story.”
The Client writes or speaks the exact sentences.
These sentences are the hooks about to be removed forever.
3. Enter First Position
Standing near the water, the Client assures that they are in First Position: Centered, Grounded, and Bubbled.
- Feet on Earth.
- Breath in body.
- Eyes open.
- Adult present.
They say:
- “I am here now."
- "I am the one who chooses."
- "I am not a child in someone else’s ritual."
- "I am an adult Being reclaiming my own authority.”
4. Name the unauthorized contract
The Client speaks clearly: “Any baptismal contract, vow, claim, naming, ownership, spiritual debt, guilt, shame, fear, obedience, or belonging installed in me without my conscious adult choice: I now identify you.”
Then pause.
Let the body respond.
The body may shake, cry, heat up, freeze, laugh, rage, or go blank. All are information.
5. Feel the four feelings
The Spaceholder asks for short check-ins:
- “I feel angry because…”
- “I feel sad because…”
- “I feel scared because…”
- “I feel glad because…”
This is not therapy talk. This is energetic mobilization.
Anger gives cutting power.
Sadness releases attachment.
Fear gives precision.
Joy opens the new field.6. Use the Sword of Clarity
The Client uses a physical gesture of drawing a sword.
They cut the installed story sentence by sentence.
For example:
- “I cut the story that I am born sinful.”
- “I cut the story that any institution owns my soul.”
- “I cut the story that my body is shameful.”
- “I cut the story that obedience is love.”
- “I cut the story that I need permission to relate directly with Radical Reality.”
Each cut should be spoken slowly, with breath and body, with the Conscious Anger of the Sword of Clarity.
7. Enter the water
The ocean is powerful because it is not symbolic only. It is alive, immense, indifferent to doctrine, older than religion, directly physical.
The Client enters the water consciously.
They say anything they want, or nothing, and they feel everything:
- Water, witness me.
- Earth, witness me.
- Life, witness me.
- My own Being, witness me.
Then they submerge completely, or wash the head, heart, belly, genitals, hands, and feet — depending on what is safe and appropriate.
8. Reverse the unauthorized marking
While in the water, the Client says: “I remove from my body and Being every mark of ownership placed on me without my conscious adult consent.”
Then:
- I return all foreign authority to its source.
- I keep the learning.
- I release the control.
This distinction matters. You do not need to reject all ancestors, all faith, all love, all history. You remove the control-code.
9. Declare the new authority
The Client places one hand on their heart, one hand on their belly, or both hands open to the sky.
They say:
- I belong to Radical Reality.
- I belong to Life.
- I belong to Earth.
- I belong to my own Being.
- I belong to my Archetypal Lineage.
- I choose my vows consciously.
- I choose my relationships consciously.
- I choose my path consciously.
Then a personalized declaration: “From this moment, no priest, church, doctrine, parent, state, culture, or invisible authority stands between me and direct relationship with Radical Reality.”
10. Greet Your Archetypal Lineage
The Client turns toward the horizon, sky, ocean, or a chosen direction.
They ask:
“Archetypal Lineage, I invite direct connection. I ask for the next step, not the whole map.”
Then silence.
No theatrics. No forcing.
Let an image, sensation, word, color, ancestor, archetype, or nothing appear.
Nothingness is also a valid experience.
11. Exit the water as a different person
When leaving the water, the Client does not talk immediately.
They walk slowly.
They feel feet on sand or Earth.
The Spaceholder may say: “Do not explain yourself yet. Let the new shape land.”
Then the participant speaks one clean sentence: “I am no longer ________. I am ________.”
But avoid defining the new identity as the absence of the old wound.
Not:
“I am no longer baptized.”
Better:
“I am a sovereign adult Being in direct relationship with Radical Reality.”
Or:
“I am an Archan connected to my Archetypal Lineage.”
12. Burn, bury, or dissolve the old sentences
The written installed sentences can be:
burned safely,
buried,
torn up and scattered into the wind,
or dissolved in water.The Client says: “That story is no longer my authority.”
13. Make a practical next action
The process is incomplete without grounding.
Ask and write answers to: “What changes now?”
Possible actions:
- Stop using inherited religious language automatically.
- Tell a parent or not tell a parent consciously.
- Remove a symbol from your room.
- Create a new and different personal altar.
- Write your own vows. Consider having no vows.
- Have a conversation with your 5 Bodies to re-meet them.
- Join a Possibility Team.
- Create a daily Archetypal Lineage connection practice.
- Document your process.
- The final anchor: “I prove this process real through my next action.”
INTEGRATION PRACTICES
For seven days afterward, document:
- What old authority tried to come back today?
- What did my body feel?
- What did I choose instead?
- What does my Archetypal Lineage ask of me today?
- And one daily declaration: “No one and nothing stands between me and Radical Reality.”
NOTE:
A Debaptize Yourself process is not done to shame family, attack religion, or inflate into superiority. That would merely replace one possession with another.
The clean result is quieter: more center, less guilt, less invisible obedience, more direct contact, more adult choice, more responsibility. The purpose is not to become 'unbaptized'.
The purpose is to become undivided.
Experiments To Prepare You For Debaptism
No one can prepare you for you.
More interestingly, no one can stop you from preparing yourself.
Preparing yourself centers on Building Matrix for collecting more consciousness.
With more consciousness, you see more options to choose from, including the frightening ones.
Then you can be Radically Responsible and Play Full Out.
What you decide, however, is still up to you.
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